I question why would you be around to hear such a remark, more than once?

By staying around weren't you enabling him to say it again?

Just a different way of looking at the situation.

very good point sweetie....I loved him i guess would be why...I mean he wasnt all the time like this but most of the time and that was when I started to wake up and tell myself it's not the type of relationship I want with him...so it ended finally....but back then it was because I thought I loved him but the love started fading away the ways he started treating me more and more

So you stayed till you decided to leave.
Good decision.

Yes I stayed til I desided to leave I started taking ppls advise on leaving him...Just wished I would have left him long before I did last yr is when I finally broke it off...I feel better now that I did leave him...he was still calling me saying all the right things I wanted to hear from him finally but it is too late im done with his type of relationship where he is still saying he treated me good...and a lot of friends i had and made will tell you how well he treated me and they would tell you that he treated me like sh*t

wwo you just need a new guy not all guys are like that

sounds like you just had a bad guy. no real man would compliment another woman more or better than the one that he's with.

course, it also sounds like you need a dose of selfconfidence

hmmm.