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Topic: COMPLIMENTS
sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 11:59 AM
OK here is the deal...I just want to everyone to know i am single not with anyone....This post has to do with past times that happened...

When I was with this guy he would always be so complimenting to women....But when it came to me I hardly got jack sh*t in that department....I would always have to fish for them when I was with this guy...My question is why do some men have to be that way? Why cant they compliment you like they do other women? I mean I practically to feel good about myself because hell he wouldnt let on the compliments to me that I started doubting strangers that complimented me..I actually felt good when someone else would compliment me...I think im not sure that it is true but i think him complimenting everyone else besides me made me believe I myself wasnt as complimenting kind of person to him...When I brought it up to his attention he would always tell me your as good looking as like the head of my d*ck is...I mean how would that make you feel girls?

vegasgirl2007's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:00 PM
explode explode explode explode

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:01 PM
Ill second that explode explode explode explode

That wasnt a man- thats for sure! noway

sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:02 PM

explode explode explode explode
yeah that is pretty much how I felt

izzie's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:02 PM
wow, that guy had some issues!!!

fh_popo's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:02 PM
I sure hope you kicked that ass hole to the curb.:wink: :wink:

azrae1l's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:02 PM
after reading the past few posts of yours i've come to a conclusion.....

you have a major self esteem problem and it reflects in the guys your dating, to which you have one option. stop looking to others to make you feel good about you and start relying on yourself. if you think your a great person then your confidence builds, and others notice it, your general outward appearence will change and you'll attract a higher class of guy.

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Mon 03/17/08 12:03 PM
My son's dad was like that as well. I asked him one time why and he said....."but youre my wife...youre not supposed to be hot"noway noway noway

zhiba's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:03 PM
mad explode

sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:04 PM

wow, that guy had some issues!!!
Izzie i was stupid I was with him for 2 yrs off and on I have learned my lesson..

me2g's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:06 PM

Ill second that explode explode explode explode

That wasnt a man- thats for sure! noway


I soo agree.

missy51970's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:07 PM

Ill second that explode explode explode explode

That wasnt a man- thats for sure! noway



explode explode explode explode
make that a third

sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:07 PM

after reading the past few posts of yours i've come to a conclusion.....

you have a major self esteem problem and it reflects in the guys your dating, to which you have one option. stop looking to others to make you feel good about you and start relying on yourself. if you think your a great person then your confidence builds, and others notice it, your general outward appearence will change and you'll attract a higher class of guy.
I think I am a great person its guys like the one i was talking about that makes me second guess myself is what im talking about

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Mon 03/17/08 12:09 PM
this reminds me of the time a heavy set friend of mine's bf told her in front of me that she was fat!!!noway explode

He had a huge spare tire around his waistnoway noway noway

MysterHK's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:10 PM

OK here is the deal...I just want to everyone to know i am single not with anyone....This post has to do with past times that happened...

When I was with this guy he would always be so complimenting to women....But when it came to me I hardly got jack sh*t in that department....I would always have to fish for them when I was with this guy...My question is why do some men have to be that way? Why cant they compliment you like they do other women? I mean I practically to feel good about myself because hell he wouldnt let on the compliments to me that I started doubting strangers that complimented me..I actually felt good when someone else would compliment me...I think im not sure that it is true but i think him complimenting everyone else besides me made me believe I myself wasnt as complimenting kind of person to him...When I brought it up to his attention he would always tell me your as good looking as like the head of my d*ck is...I mean how would that make you feel girls?


Although, I'm a complete stranger to you, let me begin to compliment you by saying that the picture you chose for your profile is fantastic and I'm sure there are others who believe you're a great person! At least that's what I believe. :wink:

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Mon 03/17/08 12:11 PM

after reading the past few posts of yours i've come to a conclusion.....

you have a major self esteem problem and it reflects in the guys your dating, to which you have one option. stop looking to others to make you feel good about you and start relying on yourself. if you think your a great person then your confidence builds, and others notice it, your general outward appearence will change and you'll attract a higher class of guy.


Sorry to but it but Sas is a great lady I know her as a good friend your rude for saying that to someone like that. I bet she never said one mean thing to anyone in her life. She is a great lady flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:13 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 03/17/08 12:14 PM

after reading the past few posts of yours i've come to a conclusion.....

you have a major self esteem problem and it reflects in the guys your dating, to which you have one option. stop looking to others to make you feel good about you and start relying on yourself. if you think your a great person then your confidence builds, and others notice it, your general outward appearence will change and you'll attract a higher class of guy.


What he said! flowerforyou

PS... this was not taken by me as mean. Just an honest, objective observation. Prior threads are showing a pattern.

sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:13 PM


OK here is the deal...I just want to everyone to know i am single not with anyone....This post has to do with past times that happened...

When I was with this guy he would always be so complimenting to women....But when it came to me I hardly got jack sh*t in that department....I would always have to fish for them when I was with this guy...My question is why do some men have to be that way? Why cant they compliment you like they do other women? I mean I practically to feel good about myself because hell he wouldnt let on the compliments to me that I started doubting strangers that complimented me..I actually felt good when someone else would compliment me...I think im not sure that it is true but i think him complimenting everyone else besides me made me believe I myself wasnt as complimenting kind of person to him...When I brought it up to his attention he would always tell me your as good looking as like the head of my d*ck is...I mean how would that make you feel girls?


Although, I'm a complete stranger to you, let me begin to compliment you by saying that the picture you chose for your profile is fantastic and I'm sure there are others who believe you're a great person! At least that's what I believe. :wink:
LOL ty sweetie but Im not fishing for compliments on this post just want everyone to know that but ty for the compliment I am just trying to find answers to things is all but I do ty so much for that compliment

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Mon 03/17/08 12:15 PM
It makes me upset to see people these days make comments like i seen on here to someone so nice. If you don't have anything nice to say bout anyone then dont say it at all. She is a great friend of mine if ya don't like what I say oh well I stick up for my friends.

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sasfire75's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:20 PM

It makes me upset to see people these days make comments like i seen on here to someone so nice. If you don't have anything nice to say bout anyone then dont say it at all. She is a great friend of mine if ya don't like what I say oh well I stick up for my friends.

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Well ty shadow my good friend....But everyone im done posting because i am trying to get answers on things and find out what makes some men do what they do and I think i got enough to go on so im not posting anymore so dont worry you wont have to read mine any more ty you all for your input

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