Topic: "bad boys"
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Sun 03/16/08 11:30 AM


How do you screen them? I met a guy last night that LOOKS like one, (Soooooo not my type) Harley clothes, tatoos, beard growing in, but he was a perfect gentleman. We slow danced & his hands didn't wander, held doors, walked me to my car , kissed me on the cheek, took my hand like he didn't want to let go, but kissed my cheek again, hugged me & left. Is this the game begining, or could he be a gentleman is disguise?
:heart: Its impossible to trully judge ANYONE by their clothes or looks.
Time like others have said will show the person.
And YOU have to give HIM credit for actions already proven to YOU..A PERFECT GENTLEMAN...He's probably a stright-up dude..
Let us know how it tunes out?? And good luck.....flowerforyou
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I try not to judge by looks, I am just saying I am not usually attracted to this style. We all have preferences, as you & I well know....

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Sun 03/16/08 11:31 AM
Edited by zanne46 on Sun 03/16/08 11:32 AM

hey gal,,,,,,,,,,,,hows things going


hi Joe..

If talking to me...

I am ok today..


had a rough few days..but better today...thank god...:smile:

how are you..hope ur having a great day...:smile: smooched flowerforyou

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Sun 03/16/08 11:31 AM
give it a chance and check him out, take your time. remember, if we buy a car, dont you test drive your favorites so to speak, and how much more important is a relationship, drive the first model you like and you may pay for something you dont really end up wanting., maybe not the best analogy, but think about it, good luck and best wishesflowerforyou drinker

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Sun 03/16/08 11:33 AM
just because we look like bad guy's we are not !flowerforyou some us know how to treat a lady like a lady !flowerforyou

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Sun 03/16/08 11:33 AM

hehehehe Zanne I type slow


and I type with 3-4 fingers and have to look at the keys....laugh laugh laugh :tongue: :wink:

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Sun 03/16/08 11:33 AM




Maybe he's that perfect mix...



What is that perfect mix? I really didn't like the way he presented himself, although he is attractive, I was the most dressed up lady in the room & he was wearing a harley head scarf, definatey the roughest looking guy. But he treated me like I was a princess.

Maybe he knew how to treat a ladie.......
in order to get her in the sackdevil


This is what I am worried about.

Its not hard to act like a gentleman in order to get what you want, your job is to determine if he's an actual gentle man

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Sun 03/16/08 11:35 AM

wanted a chicken dinner later?


He knows nothing about "hen" Last night I was dressed sorta like like Carney Wilson. (I am a Fat n Sassy red head)

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Sun 03/16/08 11:35 AM
Edited by harley46 on Sun 03/16/08 11:36 AM
Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet. drinker

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Sun 03/16/08 11:35 AM


hehehehe Zanne I type slow


and I type with 3-4 fingers and have to look at the keys....laugh laugh laugh :tongue: :wink:

Me to, I get left behind alotflowerforyou

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Sun 03/16/08 11:36 AM
Give him a second date and see what happen. That way you don't have to wander "What if."

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Sun 03/16/08 11:36 AM





Maybe he's that perfect mix...



What is that perfect mix? I really didn't like the way he presented himself, although he is attractive, I was the most dressed up lady in the room & he was wearing a harley head scarf, definatey the roughest looking guy. But he treated me like I was a princess.

Maybe he knew how to treat a ladie.......
in order to get her in the sackdevil


This is what I am worried about.

Its not hard to act like a gentleman in order to get what you want, your job is to determine if he's an actual gentle man


Exactly why I asked the question!flowerforyou

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Sun 03/16/08 11:38 AM

Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet. drinker


I have always enjoyed chatting with bikers, but I am afraid of riding on a bike, 1st thing I told him after he showed me his tatoos & told me about his accident.

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Sun 03/16/08 11:39 AM
It sound's like to me j/m/o
You are looking to find out from us weather
You should give him a chance or not do you really
Know this Man or if not did you just judge. Him by
One date take your time to get to know someone


Whats the rush in your life for heck we all get hurt

But if you don't put yourself out there you will

Always find a excuse to find something wrong with someone

That you did not even take the time to get to know for yourself




Time does not hold you back it's Fear of being hurt
That doe's and if you look for every thing that might be
Wrong with someone without getting to know them at all


That mean's you have not moved on from the fear in your life.




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Sun 03/16/08 11:40 AM
For seem reason the bikers seem to like me, & this one wasn't bothered by my weight at all.

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Sun 03/16/08 11:41 AM


Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet. drinker


I have always enjoyed chatting with bikers, but I am afraid of riding on a bike, 1st thing I told him after he showed me his tatoos & told me about his accident.
that no biggy, i have date a couple of women that didnt like to ride ! and it dont mean that i didnt enjoy their company ,i have alot of friend's that dont ride !

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Sun 03/16/08 11:42 AM
Thanks for all the nice responses I am not ignoring anyone, I just type slow & can't keep up.

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Sun 03/16/08 11:42 AM
Interesting to see this topic today. I was talking with my brother last night(he is a producer and has had more women than I can count). We talked about the "bad boy" image and how so many women want that image, but to find a really nice guy inside. Could be that he is trying to attract with the image, but is a nice guy. Time will tell as has been said previously.

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Sun 03/16/08 11:47 AM

Interesting to see this topic today. I was talking with my brother last night(he is a producer and has had more women than I can count). We talked about the "bad boy" image and how so many women want that image, but to find a really nice guy inside. Could be that he is trying to attract with the image, but is a nice guy. Time will tell as has been said previously.



I have never been attracted by that "look". I actually like "geeky" guys but I wanted to dance & I was surprised at how sweet he was.

The best part of my evening was actually watching him dance with his mother, who has her own bike & is planning a trip to Sturgis!

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Sun 03/16/08 11:50 AM
not all biker's are bad people ! i dance with my mother all the time ! well, she is the only one that can get me out on the floor ! lollaugh

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Sun 03/16/08 11:52 AM
Black Fox, yes you are right I am trying to decide if I should see him again. I know fron experience how hard it can be to try to fit into someone else's life style & his whole family is crazy about bikes. I don't want to fall for someone I think I may have such big differences with. His Mother was singing screaming the "F" word & I was cringing. She's amazing, so much energy & a great dancer, but I was raised so differently...


I really liked what you wrote in your profile.flowerforyou