Do you think it is inappropriate for someone to be on a dating site... if they are actually not looking for a relationship???

Is it wrong to just be here and join in the forums and "chat".... or is it misleading?

I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as they make it clear they are looking to just chat and friends. If I was in a relationship, I don't think I would give up this site.

NO its not wrong I have a few frineds on here that arent looking for a relationship on here but There is always Friendship or did ppl forget about that

i met someone on here but have made alot of online friends too, plus i have told everyone im dating now so as long as your honest why not

I think it's wrong , because it's a dating site not a chat room

as long as they're upfront about their intentions, there's nothing wrong about it.

Yes it is! I have to tell alot of guys that i'm NOT just lookin for a good time

I don't think its wrong... but I would sure rather my partner be cuddled up with me than chatting online

Ok I get it... and to some degree I suppose u r right...

I am here for friends & conversation, as my profile states.
I think it is just fine, as long as you let folks know that.


Wrong? We all have a right to our opinion.
Seems to me there are alot of members here for FRIENDS.

Well I do and then the response is that I have no business on a dating site... my point is that I am not against a possible relationship... but I feel a bit of communication prior to meeting would be in my best interest,....

Therefore my desire in chatting... and see where it goes from there,... but I guess that isn't good enough

yeh its good to have friends and i thought the forums were for chatting

if people are honest about it from the get go...what's the problem?

Sweetheart you just go at yor own pace and don't let anyone rush you

Of course not.There's nothing misleading going on.Ur intro.states ur intentions @ the top & in addition other info.in ur profile.Providing the person is honest of course.And ur answer would be;this is not strictly a dating site.It is a deeply rooted social site also.It has been that way since it's origin.Do U have any idea how many dear & deep friendships that have been forged here & many are still in effect as we speak.And of course new friendships acquired.No need 2 defend oneself.Delete!when necessary.(lol)Have fun,keep making new friends,laugh etc.Godspeed!CyPoet

The word Date has a lot of definitions. I think if you are clear in your profile what you want it is fine to be on this site. Since it appears that numerous people have JSH in their computer address boook for years it stands to reasons that goals might change as relationships take their natural course. I wouldn't want to boot anyone for having a current interest or even a spouse;especially if JSH was the meeting place and they have friends here. Hopefully they are not just looking for an "upgrade" but I am sure that does happen occasionally.

Thank you

When you sign up, you get to say what you're looking for, and one of the options is friends.

You can even change it later, if you like. (I've changed mine probably 6 or 7 times....)

We're not all looking for the same thing at the same time....

Someone to talk to ... adult conversations ... a little flirting, maybe - sure.

I agree, as long as you're honest, there's no harm done.

If someone has a problem with that - they werent your friend in the first place.
You dont have suggestive pictures in public view ...