Topic: Relationships
no photo
Thu 01/04/07 12:41 AM
If u meet someone online,and only know what they look like by just
seeing their profile n picture on their profile,but you feel connected
to them right away,and after awhile you want to get to know them better
and possibly start dating that person who you've only know for about 2
weeks or more,cause thats happening to me-right now .And I feel like im
falling 4 this person,but I dont want to reveal it to her just yet-cause
im afraid that I will lose her friendship.What should I do ?

houstonmarine's photo
Thu 01/04/07 12:42 AM
It all depends. Do they live close to you or far?

heatherrae's photo
Thu 01/04/07 12:44 AM
tell her hey i'm really startin to like u alot and would it be ok if we
got to know eachother better.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/04/07 12:50 AM
just my opinion but I think you should give it time let that person make
a move to see if things will work out, two weeks is not enough time for
anyone to really know how they feel. if you look at it typing is a whole
different thing then actually seeing and talking face to face and if you
just looking at a pic and have not met them yet and when you do all that
might change because people look a little different from there pic and
you just might change how you feel when you actually meet them

redmange420's photo
Thu 01/04/07 12:52 AM
Go read the post I just put up in "ploy (dumb ass)"

That will explain it, cuz I dont want to type that much again! LOL

lily38's photo
Thu 01/04/07 03:24 AM
Man, I totally agree with my buddy Shadow!! Sloooowwwww down! You are
gonna scare the hell out of her. What's the hurry. Lonely is one thing;
desperate another.

michael1313's photo
Thu 01/04/07 03:48 AM
gotta get on that band wagon too...slow down...
no hurry is there?

lily38's photo
Thu 01/04/07 04:05 AM
Red...LOVE the tat!!

Chuckee's photo
Thu 01/04/07 05:19 AM
We're all different, I say do what you feel comfortable doing. Good luck
to ya!

Tneal's photo
Thu 01/04/07 06:30 AM
Hey CHUCKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE what ya doing???

Hey dude, take your time. It's not a race :o)

Morena350's photo
Thu 01/04/07 08:47 AM
was up people!!!!

yo!!man, continue with being friends why rush things?
take it easy, and get to know eachother.....

no photo
Thu 01/04/07 11:06 PM
go 4 it... and tell that person.

ellgee1976's photo
Thu 01/04/07 11:14 PM
"If u meet someone online,and only know what they look like by just
seeing their profile n picture on their profile,but you feel connected
to them right away,and after awhile you want to get to know them better
and possibly start dating that person who you've only know for about 2
weeks or more,cause thats happening to me-right now .And I feel like im
falling 4 this person,but I dont want to reveal it to her just yet-cause
im afraid that I will lose her friendship.What should I do ? "


ok...i have a few thoughts on this...

1. dude, you've been here all of..oh...TODAY
2. "after awhile you want to get to know them better and possibly start
dating that person " a while? what? 10 mintues?
3. "who you've only know for about 2 weeks or more" again, you've been
here all of...TODAY
4. "What should I do ?" try being honest? try slowing WAY the hell
down? oh i dunno...use your head on your shoulders for a change?


<insert eye roll here>

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/05/07 09:40 AM
Give it a little time to get to know them or just come right out and ask
if they have found someone or not. And that you are interested in
getting to know them better to see were things might go either friends
only or maybe more. Main thing is be honest. Cause if you turn your back
someone else is gonna step in and phoof ya gone cause they figure ya
only wanted a friendship and nothing else. Sorry but we are on dating
sites for a reason we are not here to twiddle our thumbs. My self I
would rather know if I only want a friendship cause they either are not
my type or what ever reason I would tell them thank you but right now
just looking for friends don't mean they want change there mind later.
Same after you meet them if you are interested in it going any farther
and act like nothing happen they will soon figure that nothing is gonna
come of it so will start looking again thinking all you want is a
friendship.

Tneal's photo
Fri 01/05/07 06:19 PM
*rolls LG's eye back to her* lmclao