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Topic: so how long...
e_king_srv Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 45	Sat 03/15/08 01:31 PM
are you suppose to generally wait after you start seeing someone to ask like about where the relationship is goin or if there is one? and how would you go about asking it?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 03/15/08 01:33 PM
are you suppose to generally wait after you start seeing someone to ask like about where the relationship is goin or if there is one? and how would you go about asking it? When you start to wonder where the relationship is going, just ask straight up.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sat 03/15/08 01:34 PM
if u haft to ask,,,,,ur in th rong one

Mrelectric30 Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 108	Sat 03/15/08 01:34 PM
Ask them what THEY want. Don’t start off listing your demands. That will scare him off for sure.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/15/08 01:36 PM
if u haft to ask,,,,,ur in th rong one Bingo

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Sat 03/15/08 01:37 PM
humm to me you should know by a feeling if the relationship is going anywhere or not if you have to ask then there is more to question then just that.

ffdickie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 930	Sat 03/15/08 01:38 PM
If it's right, you will know when. That's the biggest thing that spooks a lot of guys especially. Let it go a bit, you will know. Pressure hurts a lot of things especially in people who have been pressure before or are coming out of a previous bad relationship. Just my .02 worth but seems to happen quite a bit to have it just happen to me.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 03/15/08 01:39 PM
No universal answer, everyone is different.

e_king_srv Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 45	Sat 03/15/08 01:42 PM
well thats the thing i do like him i just dont wanna rush and scare him type deal

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 03/15/08 01:57 PM
If you think you like them, it's resonable to ask so you don't waste your time. Still doesn't mean it's going to work. My recent expierence....we agreed we wanted the same thing, after a week and a half he want's some "time off"?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 01:59 PM
Real men dont get scared........

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 03/15/08 02:02 PM
If you think you like them, it's resonable to ask so you don't waste your time. Still doesn't mean it's going to work. My recent expierence....we agreed we wanted the same thing, after a week and a half he want's some "time off"? He won't even answer or return my call's. And asked me if I'd wait two week's???? Then say's he meant nothing by that??? WTF?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 02:06 PM
If you think you like them, it's resonable to ask so you don't waste your time. Still doesn't mean it's going to work. My recent expierence....we agreed we wanted the same thing, after a week and a half he want's some "time off"? He won't even answer or return my call's. And asked me if I'd wait two week's???? Then say's he meant nothing by that??? WTF?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 02:07 PM
If you think you like them, it's resonable to ask so you don't waste your time. Still doesn't mean it's going to work. My recent expierence....we agreed we wanted the same thing, after a week and a half he want's some "time off"? He won't even answer or return my call's. And asked me if I'd wait two week's???? Then say's he meant nothing by that??? WTF? tHEIR brains are in the azz!~!! This will explain everything!!!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 03/15/08 02:11 PM
If you think you like them, it's resonable to ask so you don't waste your time. Still doesn't mean it's going to work. My recent expierence....we agreed we wanted the same thing, after a week and a half he want's some "time off"? He won't even answer or return my call's. And asked me if I'd wait two week's???? Then say's he meant nothing by that??? WTF? tHEIR brains are in the azz!~!! This will explain everything!!! What?! am I supposed to be faithfull to a guy I've known for a week and a half with no explaination as to his dissapearance? This some kind of wierd test?