Topic: ashamed???
yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:12 AM
there shouldn't be judgement...friends or not.

I've just seen people with headlines saying "can we tell people we met at a party"

that's why I asked. if you are ashamed of where you met then maybe you shouldn't meet people there

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Sat 03/15/08 08:14 AM
People shouldn't judge but they do...partly to improve their own negative self image

monkdog8888's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:22 AM


They might not want to admit it if they meet on a sex dating site. I don’t see any problem with it if you meet on a site like this

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:23 AM



They might not want to admit it if they meet on a sex dating site. I don’t see any problem with it if you meet on a site like this


I would have no problem admitting a sex dating site. If I'm ashamed then maybe I shouldn't be on it

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Sat 03/15/08 08:35 AM
The way I see it...If I dont like what you stand for, your morals, your beliefs...Then I walk away and you're not my friend...no need for me to be rude, hateful or judgemental...

I choose my relationships, and my actions

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Sat 03/15/08 08:40 AM
I don't care what anybody thinks of where I met someone, people are just as bad in real life as they are here....

:wink:

monkdog8888's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:51 AM




They might not want to admit it if they meet on a sex dating site. I don’t see any problem with it if you meet on a site like this


I would have no problem admitting a sex dating site. If I'm ashamed then maybe I shouldn't be on it


I agree. If it bothers you, you probably shouldn't be doing it.
But some people work around a lot of judgmental people and are in the public eye and don't want to admit they meet in that kind of environment.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:57 AM





They might not want to admit it if they meet on a sex dating site. I don’t see any problem with it if you meet on a site like this


I would have no problem admitting a sex dating site. If I'm ashamed then maybe I shouldn't be on it


I agree. If it bothers you, you probably shouldn't be doing it.
But some people work around a lot of judgmental people and are in the public eye and don't want to admit they meet in that kind of environment.



I get wait you are saying

But if it's a problem or embarassment...why do it? I personally have no patience for judgemental people and I have no problem telling them to mind their own business bigsmile

me2g's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:00 AM






They might not want to admit it if they meet on a sex dating site. I don’t see any problem with it if you meet on a site like this


I would have no problem admitting a sex dating site. If I'm ashamed then maybe I shouldn't be on it


I agree. If it bothers you, you probably shouldn't be doing it.
But some people work around a lot of judgmental people and are in the public eye and don't want to admit they meet in that kind of environment.



I get wait you are saying

But if it's a problem or embarassment...why do it? I personally have no patience for judgemental people and I have no problem telling them to mind their own business bigsmile


you tell em girl... flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:03 AM
what can I say???? i'm blunt but non judgemental laugh

it's the irish in me

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Sat 03/15/08 09:05 AM

why do some people want to say they met someone at a party or whatever excuse instead of just telling people thy met online???

huh


Some people think that online "meetings" are no formal way to find people, because it has more risk. (its a wrong idea). i prefer to be honest. Not all people are false,...i think.

boonedog's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:09 AM


people can judge me I dont care...when they walk a day in my shoes...maybe they will understand...

My friends dont judge me....nor would I ever them.....thats why we are friends
i have no friends in the real world
smokin So you are telling me you have never been in the oasis bar in crestview?????

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Sat 03/15/08 09:13 AM
I dont pick up ladies at the bar....I dont go to TEETY bars...not cause what people think...its my preferrence in what Im looking for.....Which is why i joined this place and have no problem searching better places for her...

If you are ashamed of it...quit doing...

Before you can change your thinking...you have to change what goes into your mind.

sweetjeep's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:21 AM
I had a conversation with myself ( I am good at that )that if I could not admit that I met someone on line, then I had no business being on line, and I am here, so now you know who that conversation ended up!!

sweetjeep's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:26 AM

what can I say???? i'm blunt but non judgemental laugh

it's the irish in me

I kind of blunt as well, gets me in trouble sometimes!!! flowerforyou

DebbieJT's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:45 AM
i tell everybody i use on line dating..why not ...its the norm now

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:48 AM
I wouldnt be ashamed! bigsmile

monkdog8888's photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:58 AM
Everyone konws I'm trying online dating. Lady at work found this site for me. Person who job I have now moved to Canada because he meet that special person on line. I got no problem with it. Some people do.

I don't care where I meet them church, titty bar, office, whorehouse. If I like the person, I'm not ashamed where I meet them. It usually makes a good story anyway.

Morena350's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:00 AM


My friends dont judge me....nor would I ever them.....thats why we are friends


amen...friends accept, there's no judgment


agree with LG
((((gurly))))flowerforyou

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Sat 03/15/08 11:08 AM
Only real computer nerds understand each other.....