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Topic: you wont believe this!
PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 03/14/08 05:42 PM
We are all too picky, thats why we are single..

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 05:44 PM
We are all too picky, thats why we are single.. well, would it be better if you just went out with any old person? Someone with whom you share no values or interests? Being single would look pretty good right quick.

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Fri 03/14/08 05:49 PM
can it be possible that u r the one being too selective... or is it just the women????

Tim_Burgess Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 296	Fri 03/14/08 06:11 PM
can it be possible that u r the one being too selective... or is it just the women???? its the women for me...i seem to attract all of the ones that are messed up in the head or that do drugs

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 06:13 PM
can it be possible that u r the one being too selective... or is it just the women???? its the women for me...i seem to attract all of the ones that are messed up in the head or that do drugs you have only posted 138 times. How could they possibly have had time to get to know you?

Tim_Burgess Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 296	Fri 03/14/08 06:14 PM Edited by Tim_Burgess on Fri 03/14/08 06:14 PM
im talking about here where i live...

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Fri 03/14/08 06:17 PM
I only believe it because I am single also.

BLAKJAQ Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 106	Sat 03/15/08 09:34 PM
don't think it has to do with being "too picky" really. just think we all get wrapped up in out own lives so very much, that when we should and could take the time "look for love"(for lack of a better way to put it) we fail to really "see" what may be in front of our very faces. On a side note: we also tend to have expectations that get put on the people around us, ie what we "expect" when you do that, failure soon follows. Or it has for me. Just MHO

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 03/15/08 09:36 PM
it's hard to find sincerity since there are alot of people just looking for friends, i am not putting that down, but it is a dating site Dating is too much of a commitment. LOL

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 03/15/08 09:37 PM
don't think it has to do with being "too picky" really. just think we all get wrapped up in out own lives so very much, that when we should and could take the time "look for love"(for lack of a better way to put it) we fail to really "see" what may be in front of our very faces. On a side note: we also tend to have expectations that get put on the people around us, ie what we "expect" when you do that, failure soon follows. Or it has for me. Just MHO you have to have expectations.

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Sat 03/15/08 09:44 PM Edited by shutterbug on Sat 03/15/08 09:45 PM
it's hard to find sincerity since there are alot of people just looking for friends, i am not putting that down, but it is a dating site Hey Bob...I see ya went with my suggestion for the pic.

Tantza Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 197	Sun 03/16/08 09:49 AM
some are some arent ,see if the problem is in you or in the ladies around you.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 03/16/08 09:51 AM
because it matters who you spend your time with. It is better to be alone than with someone who annoys the crap out of you. Exactly, or beats the crap out of you, or steals all your crap, or can't TAKE your crap!

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 03/16/08 09:54 AM
don't think it has to do with being "too picky" really. just think we all get wrapped up in out own lives so very much, that when we should and could take the time "look for love"(for lack of a better way to put it) we fail to really "see" what may be in front of our very faces. On a side note: we also tend to have expectations that get put on the people around us, ie what we "expect" when you do that, failure soon follows. Or it has for me. Just MHO you have to have expectations. Yeah, if you don't have expectations, they don't have to live up to anything, & just lay on the sofa soaking up your gravy.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 03/16/08 09:54 AM
don't think it has to do with being "too picky" really. just think we all get wrapped up in out own lives so very much, that when we should and could take the time "look for love"(for lack of a better way to put it) we fail to really "see" what may be in front of our very faces. On a side note: we also tend to have expectations that get put on the people around us, ie what we "expect" when you do that, failure soon follows. Or it has for me. Just MHO you have to have expectations. Yeah, if you don't have expectations, they don't have to live up to anything, & just lay on the sofa soaking up your gravy.

me2g Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 1285	Sun 03/16/08 09:56 AM
personally I've been burned in the past.. now I'd rather be single than settle.... for less than I deserve

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sun 03/16/08 04:13 PM
Maybe you are just smart. Stay single. Don't worry. Be happy. Get a puppy. Get a hobby. Get a few girlfriends. That's all you need.

hottpinkilicious Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 552	Sun 03/16/08 05:06 PM
personally I've been burned in the past.. now I'd rather be single than settle.... for less than I deserve That just about sum s it up.....