Why do some people play games. I have this friend who has a really sweet girlfriend. We are not good friends just friends. Now we go to a bar and sing Karaoke all of the time and have a good time. I dance with her and we have fun.I have made it clear that I thought she was the sweetest and a very good woman and that my buddy has made a good catch. I have also made sure not to step over the line with her. Although if she were not with someone I would have no problem falling in love with her. Now with that out.I go into the bar tonight and dance with her and find out they are fighting. I try to make her feel better by telling her they will work it out and all of that. And that they are a strong couple and that everyone fights. After that I find out that they are fighting because she told him I really liked her and that I was getting serious with her. I feel she did this to make him jealous. Now she has lost my respect and maybe her boyfriend and my friendship. I ask why would she do this?

she's insecure in the relationship and thinks jealousy will prove his love for her

yea she was trying to make him jealous and she even lied..i can tell you this much, if there was a possible relationship with her,, you wouldnt want it,

She has a lot of growing up to do..

she wants you both.........menage et trois???

at least you found out now before anything happened. she shouldn't have exaggerated and betrayed someone that was there for her

I'll second that...

I have never understood why women play these kids of games, or why men put up with it.

Nice guys seem to finish last

you and iam4u could be bros!!!

nice girls too....girls like that give us a bad name

is that good or bad?

yeh it is girls like this that make me not trust women.

he's a great guy, so it's a hell of a compliment!

not all girls are that way. if i thought that of guys...i'd be playing for the other team

thank you dark, and yellow I am trying to believe that all are not the same, but it seems to come back when things like this happens. I will steer clear of her from now on

I've been trusted in every relationship in my life exept by
my ex wife, she was the only one ever unfaithful to me,
Imagine that

this story sounds familiar with me, about 15 yrs ago. maybe her mom?

that's a good idea. but remember...not everyone is that way ok???

I know one guy who doesn't!