okay,alot of people know me:
but,
I'm really undecided.
{so please don't tell me the desicion is mine}

I have been thinking about moving for years now...
yet,for some reason,I never do.

my mothers side {where I was raised} drives me crazy: LITERALY.
and my dad constantly tells me he's 100% there for me...wether I move or not.

I met him at age 12.
{against my mom's will.}

but,I never got to know him or his side of his family.
now,I'm all grown up...
and,my youngest cries and says,"mommy,I don't wanna move."

my oldest says,"move.what can I do.I'm not going."

so,I wonder:
should I stay or should I go?

If I go,there will be trouble.
If I stay,it will be double.

So please let me know...
should I stay or should I go?????

A new scene and new crowd of people may do you some good. I would take a trip to where you want to move to then decide.

just like me

yep

enya you are a very smart woman...do what makes you happy sweetie...i think a move would do you good considering everything you have and are going through...i support you in whatever decision you make my friend...the kids will adjust...

even though youre the parent i think your kids should have some say in it to0 because it will be effecting their lives also

[[[barefootbaby78]]]
remember my post about surgery and death last year?
well,as confused as I was then...
I am now.

[[[duckiegiggles]]]
thats why I'm confused....my kids.
sometimes I wonder:
Is it thier life,or mine........

I've heard this before....

i'd stay, if possible.

we can have our own lives after the kiddos are grown.

well what you all dont know is her life is not good where she is and i think she needs to do what she needs to do to make things better...it would be better for her and her kids

thanks lulu.

goodnight everyone............

I'm sorry but the decision is yours
U r the one who is moving not us. We can advice, but that's all.

actually, i'm amending my reply.

i'd stay if that was what was best for my children. their NEEDS come before everything else.

too many variables to say for certain what i'd do.