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Its my boss' Birthday tomarrow. She is giving everyone 4 days off (Yay) so I decided to do something nice. Other co workers were talking (apparently) about a party. I saw the note and thougt it said someone should bring a cake.
I spent 3 days making it NO secret to anyone (other then the boss) that I was making her a cake based off of her favroite thing. I bring the cake in, i was trying to hide it but i ran into her in the hall way and my boss saw it. She loved the cake and the thought I was just glad she was happy with it. We start work, no huge deal and the girl whom apparently passed the note around about the cake idea came up and said it was a really b***h thing to do to bring a cake in. She said that everyone knew SHE Was bringing one in. I honestly DIDN'T know she was. She never speaks to me, i had never heard her mention it. Other people knew i was making one. I tried to appologize and explain that i didn't know she was bringing one and that i was trying to hide the cake until after work but the boss saw it. She wouldn't hear ANY of it and told me to just stay away from her, i was a b***h and don't talk to her. I tried laster to appologize and talk to her like an adult but she was acting like i shot her friend and stole her husband. Oi i don't know. I feel bad because the other girl brought a cake (apparently). Ive tried to appologize to no avail. . . . Am i REALLY that bad for bringing my boss a cake? For trying to be nice? |
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I would feel bad too, but it's not your fault!
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Sounds to me like she's the one that should have posted the thread...
Don't give it a 2nd thought.. She's the b**** not you.. |
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no..... u did the right thing saying sorry. for the mix up... its up to her when to take that sorry. thats all u can do for now... let her come to you.
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Her behavior was horrid.
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Screw her. Did she even bring a cake anyway? I would think people would be happy to have even more cake. What a freak.
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Its my boss' Birthday tomarrow. She is giving everyone 4 days off (Yay) so I decided to do something nice. Other co workers were talking (apparently) about a party. I saw the note and thougt it said someone should bring a cake. I spent 3 days making it NO secret to anyone (other then the boss) that I was making her a cake based off of her favroite thing. I bring the cake in, i was trying to hide it but i ran into her in the hall way and my boss saw it. She loved the cake and the thought I was just glad she was happy with it. We start work, no huge deal and the girl whom apparently passed the note around about the cake idea came up and said it was a really b***h thing to do to bring a cake in. She said that everyone knew SHE Was bringing one in. I honestly DIDN'T know she was. She never speaks to me, i had never heard her mention it. Other people knew i was making one. I tried to appologize and explain that i didn't know she was bringing one and that i was trying to hide the cake until after work but the boss saw it. She wouldn't hear ANY of it and told me to just stay away from her, i was a b***h and don't talk to her. I tried laster to appologize and talk to her like an adult but she was acting like i shot her friend and stole her husband. Oi i don't know. I feel bad because the other girl brought a cake (apparently). Ive tried to appologize to no avail. . . . Am i REALLY that bad for bringing my boss a cake? For trying to be nice? IMO, you didn't even owe her an apology, but it's nice that you apologized. It wasn't your fault at all. She'll get over it. |
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Its my boss' Birthday tomarrow. She is giving everyone 4 days off (Yay) so I decided to do something nice. Other co workers were talking (apparently) about a party. I saw the note and thougt it said someone should bring a cake. I spent 3 days making it NO secret to anyone (other then the boss) that I was making her a cake based off of her favroite thing. I bring the cake in, i was trying to hide it but i ran into her in the hall way and my boss saw it. She loved the cake and the thought I was just glad she was happy with it. We start work, no huge deal and the girl whom apparently passed the note around about the cake idea came up and said it was a really b***h thing to do to bring a cake in. She said that everyone knew SHE Was bringing one in. I honestly DIDN'T know she was. She never speaks to me, i had never heard her mention it. Other people knew i was making one. I tried to appologize and explain that i didn't know she was bringing one and that i was trying to hide the cake until after work but the boss saw it. She wouldn't hear ANY of it and told me to just stay away from her, i was a b***h and don't talk to her. I tried laster to appologize and talk to her like an adult but she was acting like i shot her friend and stole her husband. Oi i don't know. I feel bad because the other girl brought a cake (apparently). Ive tried to appologize to no avail. . . . Am i REALLY that bad for bringing my boss a cake? For trying to be nice? you did nothing wrong, screw here |
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IS THERE A LAW THAT SAYS SOMEONE CANT RECEIVE 2 CAKES FOR THEIR BIRTHDAY??
HONESTLY, I NEVER HEARD THAT ONE. DONE FEEL BAD, YOU DID IT TO CELEBRATE YOUR BOSS, NOT TO PLEASE THE OTHER B**CH!! SHE'LL GET OVER IT! |
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Come on now... can you REALLY have too much CAKE?????
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You did the right thing so don't give it another thought.
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I love cake. Especially with vanilla buttercream frosting. And if there is MORE cake, and we all got to take some home... even better!
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Damn! I was really hoping for chance to say 'Yes"
but I can't. You were right. She was wrong. This one was way too easy! |
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You did the right thing so don't give it another thought. Pretty good for your first post there, dude! |
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I bought everything to make my sons birthday cake. I can't wait!!
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I love cake. Especially with vanilla buttercream frosting. And if there is MORE cake, and we all got to take some home... even better! It was a home made tripple level yellow cake with butter cream, and fondant in an egyptian theme =) Everything is home made... jsut dont ask how much sugar OR callories it has |
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That person is immature and an attention seeker. You do not owe her an apology. Let her stew about the lack of attention and hold your head high. You did something nice and this idiot is just trying to suck up to the boss.
In the future, watch her and see how she acts around others and how she reacts to deadlines and tasks...I'll bet your bottom dollar that she is one to ride on the shirt tails of those who are productive and excel because she is so insecure and eager to get ahead without "manning-up" and actually doing her job. |
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see, tiz impossible to make women(or some women) happy
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that was really nice of you F*ck her if she dun like it slit her throat
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Its my boss' Birthday tomarrow. She is giving everyone 4 days off (Yay) so I decided to do something nice. Other co workers were talking (apparently) about a party. I saw the note and thougt it said someone should bring a cake. I spent 3 days making it NO secret to anyone (other then the boss) that I was making her a cake based off of her favroite thing. I bring the cake in, i was trying to hide it but i ran into her in the hall way and my boss saw it. She loved the cake and the thought I was just glad she was happy with it. We start work, no huge deal and the girl whom apparently passed the note around about the cake idea came up and said it was a really b***h thing to do to bring a cake in. She said that everyone knew SHE Was bringing one in. I honestly DIDN'T know she was. She never speaks to me, i had never heard her mention it. Other people knew i was making one. I tried to appologize and explain that i didn't know she was bringing one and that i was trying to hide the cake until after work but the boss saw it. She wouldn't hear ANY of it and told me to just stay away from her, i was a b***h and don't talk to her. I tried laster to appologize and talk to her like an adult but she was acting like i shot her friend and stole her husband. Oi i don't know. I feel bad because the other girl brought a cake (apparently). Ive tried to appologize to no avail. . . . Am i REALLY that bad for bringing my boss a cake? For trying to be nice? Oh please. Such office drama eh? You did a nice thing. Period. You shoulda told her not to get her panties in a bunch. That you saw some birds outside that would be glad to eat hers |
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