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Jayne, Cindy ya'll did have some very enlighting posts. but for the most part, I think the ladies that post that have many different ideas I think age has alot to do with that. When you get older you realize what it is you're looking for and you usually want the same qualities in a mate that you yourself possess. Younger guys and girls don't understand that. Most are looking for drop dead good looks. I want a man not a model; someone who's on the same page as I am, and I him (well most of the time anyway). DAMN Jayne...didn't know you were a mind reader!  I was thinking the same thing when reading Chuck's reply here. BRB, have to reconnect...  (dial - up) Cindy it's so true. My last bf was 47 yrs old and a cop. We made each other laugh and we had such serious talks about almost anything. There were times when he was just great; but there were more times when he was just self-centered and made me cry. Most times we were never on the same page and it caused alot of unnecessary problems. It's really a shame because I still love him and was willing to accept him as he was. He talked about changing but at times he remained "closed minded". I was the one doing the changing and the compromising and so I had to leave. I miss him at times especially now being so down and unsure of myself lately. He is a good man -- but very complicated and He's Never Wrong! |
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they who? but some ladies send me emails so I respond to every email I get and in turn I do read there profile before I reply and I see that on there.
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ya you are soo right Jayne........................ but think about the way it sounds making that statement do they want a caveman cause that is the first thing that comes to my mind Actually I think they do -- they want the bad boy. I've been there and done that. I just want a simple man, who's comfortable in his own skin; good sense of humor; let me take care of him and him me; able to support me emotionally when I'm down and I him; I don't think I'm asking for much. |
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Jayne, Cindy ya'll did have some very enlighting posts. but for the most part, I think the ladies that post that have many different ideas I think age has alot to do with that. When you get older you realize what it is you're looking for and you usually want the same qualities in a mate that you yourself possess. Younger guys and girls don't understand that. Most are looking for drop dead good looks. I want a man not a model; someone who's on the same page as I am, and I him (well most of the time anyway). DAMN Jayne...didn't know you were a mind reader! I was thinking the same thing when reading Chuck's reply here. BRB, have to reconnect... (dial - up) Cindy it's so true. My last bf was 47 yrs old and a cop. We made each other laugh and we had such serious talks about almost anything. There were times when he was just great; but there were more times when he was just self-centered and made me cry. Most times we were never on the same page and it caused alot of unnecessary problems. It's really a shame because I still love him and was willing to accept him as he was. He talked about changing but at times he remained "closed minded". I was the one doing the changing and the compromising and so I had to leave. I miss him at times especially now being so down and unsure of myself lately. He is a good man -- but very complicated and He's Never Wrong!
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I SAID JORGE IS NEVER WRONG; EVEN WHEN HE'S WRONG HE'S NEVER WRONG.
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Jayne, Cindy ya'll did have some very enlighting posts. but for the most part, I think the ladies that post that have many different ideas I think age has alot to do with that. When you get older you realize what it is you're looking for and you usually want the same qualities in a mate that you yourself possess. Younger guys and girls don't understand that. Most are looking for drop dead good looks. I want a man not a model; someone who's on the same page as I am, and I him (well most of the time anyway). DAMN Jayne...didn't know you were a mind reader! I was thinking the same thing when reading Chuck's reply here. BRB, have to reconnect... (dial - up) Cindy it's so true. My last bf was 47 yrs old and a cop. We made each other laugh and we had such serious talks about almost anything. There were times when he was just great; but there were more times when he was just self-centered and made me cry. Most times we were never on the same page and it caused alot of unnecessary problems. It's really a shame because I still love him and was willing to accept him as he was. He talked about changing but at times he remained "closed minded". I was the one doing the changing and the compromising and so I had to leave. I miss him at times especially now being so down and unsure of myself lately. He is a good man -- but very complicated and He's Never Wrong! The guy I left 19 months ago and I had what was the closest thing to IT I had ever come across...we were together 6 yrs. and I would say closer to him than I was to my husband of 20 yrs. I was...and still am...looking for that 'forever' factor. Someone I can stay young with and grow old with. Live the daily life of the good and the bad. Younger people these days have no idea of the work it takes to make a life long relationship...work on BOTH people involved. Alcohol is what got in the way of the 6 yr. relationship, it meant more to him than I did and I couldn't/wouldn't live in his alcohloic world any longer. So very sad! |
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I know it is tough Cindy but you always have to do what is right for you and your family, and when that special some one can not see the importance of who they are with it just becomes a one way street you keep working and working and they just expect more
Jayne that word is soooooooooo strange what id the meaning of it I dont even think I can spell it right wthong
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 Cindy: I'm an alcoholic and hopefully I'll celebrate 16yrs sobriety on April 1. I know the casualities of alcoholics and the wreckage that is left behind. From first hand experience an alcoholic's first priority is the next drink. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully, he will find the help and straighten out.
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I know it is tough Cindy but you always have to do what is right for you and your family, and when that special some one can not see the importance of who they are with it just becomes a one way street you keep working and working and they just expect more Jayne that word is soooooooooo strange what id the meaning of it I dont even think I can spell it right wthong Oh Chuck bite me. If I had you next to me right now I'd .......  
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I have never been faced with that challenge so I really have no idea what it would be like.
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Cindy: I'm an alcoholic and hopefully I'll celebrate 16yrs sobriety on April 1. I know the casualities of alcoholics and the wreckage that is left behind. From first hand experience an alcoholic's first priority is the next drink. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully, he will find the help and straighten out. CONGRATS on 16 yrs. Jayne!!! It was a sad/tough way to live but the 6 yrs. did make me a stronger person! |
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I have never been faced with that challenge so I really have no idea what it would be like. Let's just say you'd be very surprised and very happy Bucko. I'm only 5'0 and 100lbs could not do much damage. But then again, I've been told I'm a handful.
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I have never been faced with that challenge so I really have no idea what it would be like. Let's just say you'd be very surprised and very happy Bucko. I'm only 5'0 and 100lbs could not do much damage. But then again, I've been told I'm a handful. An itty bitty 5 ft.? I'm 6 ft., guess that makes me TWO handfuls! 
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Cindy: I'm an alcoholic and hopefully I'll celebrate 16yrs sobriety on April 1. I know the casualities of alcoholics and the wreckage that is left behind. From first hand experience an alcoholic's first priority is the next drink. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully, he will find the help and straighten out. CONGRATS on 16 yrs. Jayne!!! It was a sad/tough way to live but the 6 yrs. did make me a stronger person! If you don't mind me asking this -- did you go to Alano. Is he getting help. |
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well thanks but I was talking about your previous post.
I have never know anyone who could not function w/o drinking and being dependant upon it have met many people after and are in recovery |
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I have never been faced with that challenge so I really have no idea what it would be like. Let's just say you'd be very surprised and very happy Bucko. I'm only 5'0 and 100lbs could not do much damage. But then again, I've been told I'm a handful. An itty bitty 5 ft.? I'm 6 ft., guess that makes me TWO handfuls! almost pissed my pants
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I have been told I am ............oh forget it
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Cindy: I'm an alcoholic and hopefully I'll celebrate 16yrs sobriety on April 1. I know the casualities of alcoholics and the wreckage that is left behind. From first hand experience an alcoholic's first priority is the next drink. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully, he will find the help and straighten out. CONGRATS on 16 yrs. Jayne!!! It was a sad/tough way to live but the 6 yrs. did make me a stronger person! If you don't mind me asking this -- did you go to Alano. Is he getting help. My youngest daughter accompanyied me to one Alanon meeting...what a disappointment THAT was! And NO, he hasn't and most likely won't ever seek help...BUT, he has admitted to me yes, he has a problem...and has said he has to do something about it...but he won't seek out AA. I even went as far once, to set him up getting caught by the cops...it back fired though. 
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I have been told I am ............oh forget it No Chuck, you are amongst friends...spill it! 
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