This is the last time I will post in this thread, but I have one last thing I would like to add. i cannot believe that ladies would come in here and encourage this. Let me break it down.

Non trusting man = jealous man=controlling man=misery, and potentially abusive behavior. The footing you set in the beginning of a realtionship is usually how it plays out. Be anything less than a happy, mutually agreeable, trusting relationship to begin with and it will end badly. I am out of this, my last $.02
[/quote) I hear you!!! You cant be in a healthy relationship unless you trust the other person......hands down!

Rob seems to have a good head on his shoulders and knows what hes talking about here... Kudos Bro nice to see... I'm not the only one... Not braggin or anything..

I think the question you should be asking yourself is....why are you interested in a recluse..??????

there are plenty of normal males out there.......