Topic: How To...
MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:58 PM
You have to buy a shotgun and hunt him down and ..........

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Wed 03/12/08 11:58 PM
hahaha. sounds fun.laugh

Single_Rob's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:59 PM

Well, we decided that when we meet, we are going to see if we click as well as we do on the phone. If so, then we are going to work things out. But I just want to prove to him that he can trust me. Is there anything special that all guys wish a woman would do when they first meet?
Look, you are already talking about changing yourelf to be more presentable to this guy. be yourself, and if it is meant to be, it will. I wish you the best of luck kiddo, I hope I am wrong

lonelyshorty's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:59 PM

You have to buy a shotgun and hunt him down and ..........



Mirror sweetie be nice or I will put you back on the leashdevil

Starhawk's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:59 PM

Run!!!!!laugh noway laugh

scotty1964's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:00 AM
just be nice and dont tell him to trust you...show him and he will come around if its meant to be

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Thu 03/13/08 12:00 AM


Well, we decided that when we meet, we are going to see if we click as well as we do on the phone. If so, then we are going to work things out. But I just want to prove to him that he can trust me. Is there anything special that all guys wish a woman would do when they first meet?
Look, you are already talking about changing yourelf to be more presentable to this guy. be yourself, and if it is meant to be, it will. I wish you the best of luck kiddo, I hope I am wrong


I'm not trying to change myself. I am always myself. I just dont know how to show anyone that they can trust me.

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:00 AM


nothing can be mean less they blame others for there own past, in a relationship
huh huh huh huh


find out why he feels himself a failure, and he will cease to be mean.....what can be mean that dosen't blame others.....have to blame something on somebody to be mean. Didn't say it was possible or not, that just depends on whether he is ready to look inside yet.

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Thu 03/13/08 12:00 AM

just be nice and dont tell him to trust you...show him and he will come around if its meant to be


How do I show him?

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:02 AM


You have to buy a shotgun and hunt him down and ..........



Mirror sweetie be nice or I will put you back on the leashdevil
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 03/13/08 12:02 AM




Run!!!!!laugh noway laugh


who is that gorgeous one?blushing

oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you

laugh laugh laugh did someone call me scottymad
damn you do love that nick name!!! oh ok !!!! SHAZZZZZZZZZZZAM!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lonelyshorty's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:02 AM



You have to buy a shotgun and hunt him down and ..........



Mirror sweetie be nice or I will put you back on the leashdevil
laugh laugh laugh laugh



Oh wait I forgot that you would probably like that....laugh laugh

scotty1964's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:03 AM
well.it will take time....but if you are trustworthy which i have seen most women really are...he will know it:smile:

scotty1964's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:05 AM





Run!!!!!laugh noway laugh


who is that gorgeous one?blushing

oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you

laugh laugh laugh did someone call me scottymad
damn you do love that nick name!!! oh ok !!!! SHAZZZZZZZZZZZAM!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

thank you sweetie...now ive got to perv you and check out your new picks...even though i dont trust youlaugh :cry:

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Thu 03/13/08 12:08 AM






Run!!!!!laugh noway laugh


who is that gorgeous one?blushing

oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you

laugh laugh laugh did someone call me scottymad
damn you do love that nick name!!! oh ok !!!! SHAZZZZZZZZZZZAM!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

thank you sweetie...now ive got to perv you and check out your new picks...even though i dont trust youlaugh :cry:
ohhhhhhhhhh just give it time.......hahahahaaaaaaa!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

scotty1964's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:10 AM







Run!!!!!laugh noway laugh


who is that gorgeous one?blushing

oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you

laugh laugh laugh did someone call me scottymad
damn you do love that nick name!!! oh ok !!!! SHAZZZZZZZZZZZAM!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

thank you sweetie...now ive got to perv you and check out your new picks...even though i dont trust youlaugh :cry:
ohhhhhhhhhh just give it time.......hahahahaaaaaaa!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

see i didnt trust you....theres only one new picnoway but i did see the silvery shirt:tongue:

Kg1's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:12 AM
Edited by Kg1 on Thu 03/13/08 12:13 AM

Well, we decided that when we meet, we are going to see if we click as well as we do on the phone. If so, then we are going to work things out. But I just want to prove to him that he can trust me. Is there anything special that all guys wish a woman would do when they first meet?


Well I hope this isn't the case, But I tend to know guys.. and him saying how much hes been hurt and how hes been cheated on... may be a ploy for you trust him more then you should... you are obviously very much a heart on your sleeve type and he may sense an easy pray... sorry it sounds bad but guys are assholes sometimes,, well most times... be carefull.
However if he is sincere then he just needs time and friendship, he is now where near ready for a relationship wih intimacy.. GO SUPER SLOW MOTION

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:12 AM
This is the last time I will post in this thread, but I have one last thing I would like to add. i cannot believe that ladies would come in here and encourage this. Let me break it down.

Non trusting man = jealous man=controlling man=misery, and potentially abusive behavior. The footing you set in the beginning of a realtionship is usually how it plays out. Be anything less than a happy, mutually agreeable, trusting relationship to begin with and it will end badly. I am out of this, my last $.02

lonelyshorty's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:16 AM
Edited by lonelyshorty on Thu 03/13/08 12:16 AM

This is the last time I will post in this thread, but I have one last thing I would like to add. i cannot believe that ladies would come in here and encourage this. Let me break it down.

Non trusting man = jealous man=controlling man=misery, and potentially abusive behavior. The footing you set in the beginning of a realtionship is usually how it plays out. Be anything less than a happy, mutually agreeable, trusting relationship to begin with and it will end badly. I am out of this, my last $.02




Pssssssssssstttt Rob

Not all women think like that. I for one dont want to change any guy that I date. Some habits can be changed like hanging up the wet towels after the shower, but thats not changing who they are.

My opinion, if hes not trusting and unhappy that will lead to a bad relationship. He needs to figure out himself and how to trust again before you go out with him

Thats just my opinion

Kg1's photo
Thu 03/13/08 12:16 AM

This is the last time I will post in this thread, but I have one last thing I would like to add. i cannot believe that ladies would come in here and encourage this. Let me break it down.

Non trusting man = jealous man=controlling man=misery, and potentially abusive behavior. The footing you set in the beginning of a realtionship is usually how it plays out. Be anything less than a happy, mutually agreeable, trusting relationship to begin with and it will end badly. I am out of this, my last $.02

Rob seems to have a good head on his shoulders and knows what hes talking about here... Kudos Bro nice to see... I'm not the only one... Not braggin or anything..:wink: drinker