Slow...you forgot to tell Slug the second part of that.... 2. When the
woman is wrong, please read rule 1.

Humm...probably another reason I've never been married there

Slug...don't take this the wrong way, cause I like you and think you are
a real kool guy, but do womankind a favor and STAY SINGLE AND
ALONE...LMAO!

Hey Monique,
I did marry that nice too good to be true guy. I did tell him
I cared about him, but was not inlove with him. I was going
through a rough time and he was there, too. Well, guess what,
I filed for divorce in a few weeks. It was horrible to be married to
someone I wasn't in love with. Well , he manipulated and begged and I
married him AGAIN. Dum! But true.I divorced him AGAIN. It was a REAL
mess. I moved to another city and he married as soon as I divorced him.
Too much drama.
I am now standing firm on God's Word and I am
praying and waiting on The Lord. His Wisdom surpasses mine.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
These things are never easy, but you're the one that has to live with
your decisions, not us. When in doubt, do the right thing. What goes
around, goes around. Be brave, trust God, and
move on. Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

TxsGirl, Do I need to show you anymore examples? ...lmao

Dream, you just say that because it if I find someone to spend my time
with you won't see me here anymore...right...LoL

Whatever.....if you wanna sidestep thru the streets with other
men...just say so....tell him that and quit the B/S....he,s been
out at Sea, for a while...and the little time he has, he spends with you
and its a problem for you....gurl, please....don,t let this boy
introduce you to his family....fly the coop....!

Slug...you would be missed....just like I miss a stomach ache after the
flu....LMAO!

Monique, first I must say that I believe you're too young to marry. My
son just announced his engagement and I've asked them to promise not to
make plans for at least a year and they have agreed.

I was married for 24+ years and after a 2 yr separation, our divorce was
final. I met a very nice gentleman 2 months later and we were together
for 5 years. Just after I had met him, I learned that my son's father
was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer; he died a year later. That man
was right beside me and very supportive, which can blind you of the real
world issues. Once I was able to view our relationship from the
outside, I realized that I was not happy. I am so thankful that, in as
much as it was very difficult for me, I broke things off. I'm old
enough to be you mother (hmmmm, considering my son is 23)and would not
want to see you end up in a miserable, loveless relationship; it's too
difficult to get out.

If you truely know that you don't love him, don't make any commitments.
Keep it simple and see where it goes.

Hummm first of all I have to disagree with you Slow we might think we
are right all the time but let me let you in on a secret we are not lmao
ya just give in so ya don't have to listen to us B***h lmao

Hummm Sluggo I do understand why alot of men and women are single now
and don't really care if they ever marry can't blame them people don't
take it serious any more that piece of paper in most cased only means
what I can take away from you if we divorce anymore lol

Someday you might find that special one Sluggo hey but untill your 100%
sure then stay single. lol

Hell I'm not in no hurry to get married. Not saying I would not someday
but I do want to make very sure first that is a big step to take.

Thankyou so much everyone. I know I need to talk to him. I'll do my best
to say what's on my mind, and work on figuring out what the hell it is I
want in life
Happy New Year!

u r starting your relationship on lies move on if u cant tell someone
what u r doing when ur not there and if he cant accept it its no good
from the start. ur not even giving him the chance to see how he feels if
he knew u were hanging out with other guys when hes not there maybe he
woulnt want you to meet his family.

Thanks TxsGal, I'm starting to think that Dream has the Hot's for
me...I'll let you know how it goes ;-0

Hey Suggo!! How are you on this fine day??!

LoL...I keep on missing you on other posts...
Hi Sugar...

damn...I actually missed u by 3 hours there...lol

yup long time! :(

Be fair to him and yourself and move on. No one can replace your mother,
that s a special kind of love.
your in love with the fact that he comforts you...