It has only been recently since I have started to search online for
dating and friends. I have emailed several different women but they
never respond. On plentyoffish, you can see if they have read their mail
you sent and all of them have and then deleted it.
I don't say stupid stuff or come on to them strong. I basically tell
them that I like thier profile and would like to get to know more about
them. I have even had my (girl) friends tell me what to write on a
couple of occasions and still nothing. I add girls on myspace and they
don't accept.
I'm really getting pissed off. I think it's rude.
The reason I'm online is because I have trouble making the first move -
I can't think of anything to say. I am seeing two very attractive girls
right now - both 21 and both asked ME out but nothing's serious.
What's wrong with replying to someones mail and what's wrong with at
least being acquaintances or friends instead of blowing someone off like
they were a discusting perv or something?

Its prob not you. Some women get lots of emails a day and just delete
them. Or they find a few interesting people to talk to and stop talking
to other people for a while. Could be tons of different things. I'll be
your friend though :) I'm just on here to make new friends anyways.
Unless your picky and the women your trying to talk to all look like
super models then good luck! lol

ever get th feeling you might be trying too hard?

Thanks, alea.
I'm definitely not looking for a super model. I go by matching interests
and compatability not women who seem fake and put on a show. I'm not
trying too hard. I don't need to.
I generally look for women within a few miles of me and for friends. If
someone is a musician, I add them because of that and I tell them I like
their music. What's wrong with that?
Now, Grant Wilson is a semi popular tv star on Sci-Fi's Ghost Hunters
and is also a talented musician and he is on my myspace and I'm sure he
gets hundreds of requests and emails.
I'm just trying to network and make new friends if at all possible.

Dude I was on Adult FriendFinder for 4 1/2 years. Just let it expire a
couple days ago. On AFF I met tons of women. Had encounters with roughly
100 of em over those years. Not all good encounters but mostly. Even
fell in love with one of them. Unfortunately she wanted more than just
one man, as do 90% of the women there. Every one of those women told me
they got between 20 to 50 new emails every single day. I'm sure it
happens like that here too. I just made a similar posting here a day or
2 ago. I've been here for 5 wks and 2 days.sent out about 50 invites to
women I kinda liked. Thats 10 per week since I've been here. I have
gotten back one single reply and that was from a woman who politely told
me to get lost! Watch what happens since you made this posting. Bet they
start coming outta the woodwork. And if not? then they just proved us
right and we dont need their prima donna little asses anyway.

Well, guys, here is a tidbit for you that might be part of the problem;
you publicly state you have two 20 something girlfriends you are seeing
currently. Nothing like being "one of the gang". Nice. Also, when
someone states they have spent x # of years on AdultFriendFinder and as
a result slept with "roughly" a 100 women....well, something about that
statement just screams " HIGH RISK SEX CATEGORY". Yikes.....anyone can
get their rocks off guys. If that is what you're looking for, then AFF
is the place for you. It would appear one or more of you may be in the
wrong arena.

LoL w/ Lily....

Baby, can you be one of mine? I'll trade in two 20 year olds for you ;-)

*rolls eyes* walks back out shaking head!! what she said!

thats cyber dateing 4 ya... LOL

i am so glad that people that are nuts like you actually post a pic so
the whole world knows to stay away if they happen to run into you.

Is that why you don't post yours, so that no one stays away from you?

well I make a point to reply to everyone...(unless theyre jist an
asshole or specifically request something stupid). Even if I am not
interested for some reason... I will reply just to tell them that. Then
at least they know. But that's just me. My guess is that if you dont
get a response... that's just as good as saying... "IM NOT INTERESTED".
Kinda' says it all if ya' ask me so why fret over it and get mad cuz'
they didnt respond... there is yer' sign.

Dayum Lily...you REALLY know how to make a point LMAO. Keep it up ;-).
You got a gift fer cuttin' thru the B.S. and still makin' it funny LOL