my ex wants to give a relationship another go this time he's talking about if things go well in the next year we should think about living together and getting engaged and talking about marriage and kids etc...

the thing that gets to me is 2 months ago he was all i don't want a relationship right now and stuff and now of all a sudden he wants to be as serious u can get

he also wanted to know if i had been seeing anyone or slept with anyone and i said no and i asked him and he said he went out on a date.......

so now im thinking should i really trust him anymore what if he wants to leave me one day for some other women he wants to try and not to mentioned i still feel as though i've lost my chance on dating other people to if i all of a sudden give him this commitment he's decided he's wanted i'm very confused i do love him but after we broke up i really thought that was it and i feel like i could be ready to move on but he just keeps saying the right things.....

should i keep my mouth shut about my insecurities and give it a month or two and see how things go is it fair on him if i feel im that unsure about a future with him or should i tell him how i feel so he knows i dont want to rush into anything and that id still like a bit of me time....

i just hate the thought of what if im letting the right go guy and never get a chance with him again coz i wanted to still explore my other options..

i just hate the thought of what if im letting the right go guy and never get a chance with him again coz i wanted to still explore my other options..



and they say men have commitment issues

never get back with the ex, their an ex for a reason

very true

DOUBLE DITTO to that

why is he an ex...think about this...i dont think you should but youre a big girl...you can think for yourself

Move on. He's not the one. Unless you like the idea of being Mr and Mrs indecisive.

I'd give it a try. Were you married to him before? I'd say take it slow, though. Give the relationship a year or two so you could find out what things are like right now. Skip the sleeping with each other bit and keep it to hugs and kisses so you can use objective judgement about how you're being treated without excessive emotional involvement clouding your judgement.
Good luck to you. Also, pray about it, and consult your minister, your friends and your family. The more people that raise objections, the more leery you should be about finalizing things.

Relationships are just crazy. Go with your gut... If I had listened to it (Many times) I wouldn't have gotten hurt by different guys. I have just decided to just date, make friends get to know them. Then if something comes of it Yeah, but if not I may not get so hurt.... Though I do feel like a PLAYER.... even though I have only gone on 4 dates....

you are right on the money DDN