you will be missed bro !

That is because I pail in compairison to you my dear....

Yes, that is a judgement you make on how long the cuffs should be on your pants...

oh you mean seems... yes, seems like ABCD would be a judgement also... I hope you finally understand the meaning of the word judgement now....and how you really shouldn't complain about them, as you have made several harsh ones the day you asked the question in a whinny way..."Why does everyone have to judge?" Well you got judged harshly becuase of the actions you took... maybe next time you will think about judgement before you do it to yourself.

Your post is being rather judgmental about judgmental people...don't you think?????

OMG it was early PALE......... in compairison...

My black robes are not back from the cleaners yet. I feel naked.

Just stay behind that bench and don't stand up please. I've seen enough penile judgment for two life times, last night in a different thread.

LOL better than the ones who don't wash it but only add more hair spray. If you are going to be idividual hair doesn't bug me. Maybe that is because I have seen so many too sick to have any.

I live in the land of Patchouli and dreadlocks... Unwashed and hairsprayed is minor by comparison.

hey, wait! how come i didn't get any robes?

nobody told me about the robes...i'm so jealous.

One thing I have noticed is when people whine about being judged a few things come into play. In this case I don't know because I kind of came in "after" the "start" it sounds like.

One they have often asked for it. Don't ask for an opinion and then get huffy when you get one. Love the folks who say rate my profile or pose a thread question then when you take the time to give honest feed back they attack. Opinion is only and opinion; so what right?

Second judgement is part of the thinking process. Hopefully it is more than a reaction which are usually carnal and dangerous rarely in porportion. Also hopefully it is based in experience and the more the better. Saying oh I don't like peppers because one time you got a way hot variety seems a little limiting and leaves life a little flat. Breaking your own nose three times because you can't refrain from getting drunk is what it is;stupid!

Being judgemental can just be a bad habit or "taking the job home". Or not being allowed to leave work behind. One of the seniors of a large family and a retired social worker I am often the one who not always to my great pleasure gets to figure out how to solve problems. Can't tell you how tired I get of the friends who confide something I really wish they would have kept to themselves. I admidt to sometimes being honest rather than empathetic but you can only listen to so much of the same repetative baloney and not want to skip to a sarcastic "and how is that working for you?"or "grow up".

I don't know if all judgemental remarks are always malicious. Probably many are rooted in self esteem more than the one on the recieveing end needing it. However sometimes stepping back and saying why do people keep dogging on me and checking yourself is not a bad idea.

I have always wanted to know "why" for rules and a few are pretty vague and sometimes seem out of date. As I get older I do see the "other side" and find that even though there are some rules that seem unfair or need changed usually staying within the system is easier and more productive than reinventing the wheel. (OMG did I say that?) Sometimes you just end up with more rules trying to make all rules eqitable.

Last but not least I do think there are some moral absolutes in the world and all of us are entitled to reflect some of them in our world. Not necessarily impose them on anyone else but if you find it is misery to be around someone who steals from you, always melts down to hysteria, trys build themself up by tearing you down you have a right to say "get lost". Simply ignoreing some folks will not make the problem go away every time. Everybody has boundries.

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Very true.
That is why I call myself:
The high Priestess of the First Universal Life Church of Brutal Truth and Honesty.

If you don't want someone's opinion, don't ask for it.

If you make a post to a forum expect some people to disagree with you.

If you look like a duck and walk like a duck and quack like a duck, expect people to judge you as being a duck, and don't expect them to tell you that you are really a swan.

I spiked my hair today! And I work at corporate!

Is it any wonder I am in love with you?

You can have any color you want!

I just took black because it's slimming.

even though I used the wrong pale the first time around???

I knew what you meant and I didn't judge you.

I wrote guys's in a post last night; couldn't edit fast enough!

Guys's?

I'm a grammar nazi, and a spelling idiot... Don't ask...

It's that quixotic juxtaposition that makes you so inimitable.