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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong.  i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge Says the guy who told me I acted too good for everyone... I don't know, why do you judge people??? which is still a judgement call... so please answer my question... why did you judge me?? and it wasn't a judgement because i didn't use absolutes |
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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong. i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge hiya   today i judged you, for using offensive words and bad language in the thread, that got took off by the mods because it was offensive, and full of bad language DEBBIE |
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 SHAZAM
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I will form an opinion of a person, but I don't think that is the same as "judging" them, or maybe we judge for our own benefit.
My opinion or first impression of a bum on the street may be that he is dirty, lazy, unfriendly, needs to get a job, etc. but I can't really "judge" him for what he is because I don't know his story from his point of view. Under all of that, he might be a very wonderful person who had some misfortune. Maybe he is a bum, or maybe he is some poor smuck who got beat up, robbed and left in the gully. I don't know, so I would have to withhold my judgment until I found out why he was there. If I found him to be a despicable person my judgment is not to try to understand how he got that way, but my judgment is for my own benefit so I can decide if I "like" and want to have him in my life.....or not. We have to make judgments, we all do it. If you say you don't, I think you LIE. There you see, I have judged you.
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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong. i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge Says the guy who told me I acted too good for everyone... I don't know, why do you judge people??? which is still a judgement call... so please answer my question... why did you judge me?? and it wasn't a judgement because i didn't use absolutes ok, I'm going to take the pressure off...cuz I really want to tear you up right now, and I'm just too tired to do so.... I think you are this, or you could be that.... is still a judgement...... I'm going to bed now to dream about Mirror...... 
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if you dont want to be judged, then dont write offensive posts and dont use such bad language. you got judged today because of your own behaviour. so if you dont want to be judged, just follow the sites rules, and have a good look at where it tells you to NOT be offensive. i did that because i for 1, i didn't read the rules before the moderator emailed them to me, and b because i felt like i was being thretened and i wasn't going to take that. i hope i don't get kicked off for this but, if someone thretens me again i told the moderator they will not have to through me off because i will leave on my own. because i will reattack that person. not that anyone is a threat to me in here |
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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong. i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge Says the guy who told me I acted too good for everyone... I don't know, why do you judge people??? which is still a judgement call... so please answer my question... why did you judge me?? and it wasn't a judgement because i didn't use absolutes ok, I'm going to take the pressure off...cuz I really want to tear you up right now, and I'm just too tired to do so.... I think you are this, or you could be that.... is still a judgement...... I'm going to bed now to dream about Mirror...... 
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werewolf
who attacked who?? |
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werewolf
if your attacked report it to the mods, and they will deal with it. if you deal with it, youll end up getting thrown off, so let the mods sort it. |
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i make judgments, each and every day. quick ones, long ones...i use logic and reason and i evaluate the situation and come up with my answer...
i routinely choose to keep people away from my children based off of illicit or illegal or unethical behavior...i routinely judge their friends and role models... oh, wait. i'm a mod. i'm allowed, lol. |
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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong. i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge Says the guy who told me I acted too good for everyone... I don't know, why do you judge people??? which is still a judgement call... so please answer my question... why did you judge me?? and it wasn't a judgement because i didn't use absolutes ok, I'm going to take the pressure off...cuz I really want to tear you up right now, and I'm just too tired to do so.... I think you are this, or you could be that.... is still a judgement...... I'm going to bed now to dream about Mirror......  nite
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You don't? So, If I came into your home and pissed in the corner of your living room.. You would welcome me back? um..jist..do you do that alot? I think I need to talk to lilith... |
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Edited by
hikerchick
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Mon 03/10/08 09:00 PM
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why do people in GENERAL seem to think that they need to judge someone? just because someone does something that you don't like, or something think is wrong. that doesn't make it wrong. i guess this does not apply to the moderators because they do get to judge Says the guy who told me I acted too good for everyone... I don't know, why do you judge people??? You never acted too good for me!
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i make judgments, each and every day. quick ones, long ones...i use logic and reason and i evaluate the situation and come up with my answer... i routinely choose to keep people away from my children based off of illicit or illegal or unethical behavior...i routinely judge their friends and role models... oh, wait. i'm a mod. i'm allowed, lol. lulu you are right - even us non-mods have to make judgements about people every day. How would you ever hire people, evaluate staff, select a physician, decide whether or not to get into a car with someone you know; date someone, marry someone? You have to judge people. |
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I beleive we are judged because someone is always striving for Perfection,
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lulu you are right - even us non-mods have to make judgements about people every day. How would you ever hire people, evaluate staff, select a physician, decide whether or not to get into a car with someone you know; date someone, marry someone? You have to judge people. psst...i only threw the mod part in because the OP directly gave judgment permission to the mods, lol... to NOT judge is to not use your powers of intellect, your sense of discernment. i've spent too many years honing my instincts to ignore what they have to say. |
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Edited by
Jistme
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Mon 03/10/08 09:16 PM
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um..jist..do you do that alot? I think I need to talk to lilith... Why not? If I'm not gonna be judged for it! I actually used that once...without actually following through of course. I was working with a heroin addict who was complaining much in the same way werewolf is now.. About why people are judging him, treating him less then, in regards to his addiction and behavior. So I got up walked to the corner of his hotel room and unzipped. He asked me 'What are you doing?' I told him I am gonna take a leak in the corner here. Why? Because I want to. You can't. Watch me. Unless you prefer the corner over there by the head of the bed. Finally he said I needed to leave.. I responded with.. Why do you judge me for pissing in the corner of your home? He's been clean for about 6 years now. |
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um..jist..do you do that alot? I think I need to talk to lilith... Why not? If I'm not gonna be judged for it! I actually used that once...without actually following through of course. I was working with a heroin addict who was complaining much in the same way werewolf is now.. About why people are judging him, treating him less then, in regards to his addiction and behavior. So I got up walked to the corner of his hotel room and unzipped. He asked me 'What are you doing?' I told him I am gonna take a leak in the corner here. Why? Because I want to. You can't. Watch me. Unless you prefer the corner over there by the head of the bed. Finally he said I needed to leave.. I responded with.. Why do you judge me for pissing in the corner of your home? He's been clean for about 6 years now. sometimes you just have to get your point across however you can.
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werewolf if your attacked report it to the mods, and they will deal with it. if you deal with it, youll end up getting thrown off, so let the mods sort it.
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i make judgments, each and every day. quick ones, long ones...i use logic and reason and i evaluate the situation and come up with my answer... i routinely choose to keep people away from my children based off of illicit or illegal or unethical behavior...i routinely judge their friends and role models... oh, wait. i'm a mod. i'm allowed, lol. lulu you are right - even us non-mods have to make judgements about people every day. How would you ever hire people, evaluate staff, select a physician, decide whether or not to get into a car with someone you know; date someone, marry someone? You have to judge people. |
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