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Topic: Your relationship gets serious on here.
angelwings1020 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 2440	Mon 03/10/08 05:56 PM
Well people always get on me for not answering my own questions, so, I would say I would gladly move from this desert for the right person.

Mossop Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 536	Mon 03/10/08 05:58 PM
you have met each other a few times and decide that you are right for one another. Someone has to move for you two to be together. Who is it and why? Well, obviously if 2 people meet and feel they're right for each other.. then yes, someone needs to move (if they're at a distance).. I believe that if one of them is more willing and able to move (less responsibilities, maybe a job transfer is possible, or if they have children that live with them) then maybe they should be the one to make the move.. especially if the other has ties that for some reason or another doesn't allow them to leave their place of residency! Lady I would move to the US for someone like you...

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 03/10/08 05:58 PM
i have to be in a relationship first lol Okay.. you're suddenly taken.. I'll see you soon It's official, im not single anymore I want what I want when I want it.. and poof.. here it be If only I could snap my fingers to everything I wanted & got it.. I'd be one happy little lady Mr. x-ray tech.. you don't have to lie to make friends Want me?

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Mon 03/10/08 05:59 PM
how far is the distance??

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 03/10/08 05:59 PM
i have to be in a relationship first lol Okay.. you're suddenly taken.. I'll see you soon It's official, im not single anymore I want what I want when I want it.. and poof.. here it be If only I could snap my fingers to everything I wanted & got it.. I'd be one happy little lady Mr. x-ray tech.. you don't have to lie to make friends Want me? Maybe just a wee bit ~Snap~

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 03/10/08 06:01 PM
how far is the distance?? not sure where do you live........lol Um........I moved 2000 miles last time

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 03/10/08 06:02 PM
i have to be in a relationship first lol Okay.. you're suddenly taken.. I'll see you soon It's official, im not single anymore I want what I want when I want it.. and poof.. here it be If only I could snap my fingers to everything I wanted & got it.. I'd be one happy little lady Mr. x-ray tech.. you don't have to lie to make friends Want me? Maybe just a wee bit ~Snap~

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/10/08 06:02 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. I wouldn't move for anybody. My kid likes it here; I planted redwoods I want to see grow; I built a pond, stenciled my walls, I have 4 goats for goodness sake, a big pool that I put in ..I am not going to disrupt my life so that I can have a boyfriends. Yikes, how needy is that?

lacileo1 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 5226	Mon 03/10/08 06:02 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. Now that's what I am talking bout..COMPROMISING. Gotta have it in any relationship. May not be a logical answer but at least your trying to work out something that would be for both partys involved. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Mon 03/10/08 06:02 PM
i would move a few hours away but not across the country..

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/10/08 06:05 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. Now that's what I am talking bout..COMPROMISING. Gotta have it in any relationship. May not be a logical answer but at least your trying to work out something that would be for both partys involved. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME my life is about me - who else should it be about? You can't toss away everything you have worked for just to get a boyfriend. Being single is not death.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Mon 03/10/08 06:09 PM
I don't think I would move in with a guy right from the start..that gives you NO change to see if he has any type of issues..I'd move like down the street or something like that from him and just spend time with him daily..then after a few weeks or a month..move in with him..Ok..so I'm weird..I don't have a man..and it's driving me nutty.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/10/08 06:11 PM
I don't think I would move in with a guy right from the start..that gives you NO change to see if he has any type of issues..I'd move like down the street or something like that from him and just spend time with him daily..then after a few weeks or a month..move in with him..Ok..so I'm weird..I don't have a man..and it's driving me nutty. ' I agree with you here..I don't think you should move in with someone you have met a few times. That is just begging for disaster.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/10/08 06:12 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. Now that's what I am talking bout..COMPROMISING. Gotta have it in any relationship. May not be a logical answer but at least your trying to work out something that would be for both partys involved. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME my life is about me - who else should it be about? You can't toss away everything you have worked for just to get a boyfriend. Being single is not death. Cheers

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/10/08 06:13 PM
I don't think I would move in with a guy right from the start..that gives you NO change to see if he has any type of issues..I'd move like down the street or something like that from him and just spend time with him daily..then after a few weeks or a month..move in with him..Ok..so I'm weird..I don't have a man..and it's driving me nutty. Awww Lady,

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Mon 03/10/08 06:13 PM
I don't think I would move in with a guy right from the start..that gives you NO change to see if he has any type of issues..I'd move like down the street or something like that from him and just spend time with him daily..then after a few weeks or a month..move in with him..Ok..so I'm weird..I don't have a man..and it's driving me nutty. ' i would do that.

lacileo1 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 5226	Mon 03/10/08 06:16 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. Now that's what I am talking bout..COMPROMISING. Gotta have it in any relationship. May not be a logical answer but at least your trying to work out something that would be for both partys involved. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME my life is about me - who else should it be about? You can't toss away everything you have worked for just to get a boyfriend. Being single is not death. I have alot too. Own my home acreage, 2 stocked ponds, goats,chickens,ducks,dogs,cat. I love my home but if we are talking SERIOUS relationship would consider moving for LOVE. Might be the only chance ya get. Not talking boyfriend...would have to be a deeper level that that. Guess I am not wanting to live in my lovely home until I die.....ALONE.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Mon 03/10/08 06:16 PM
I don't think I would move in with a guy right from the start..that gives you NO change to see if he has any type of issues..I'd move like down the street or something like that from him and just spend time with him daily..then after a few weeks or a month..move in with him..Ok..so I'm weird..I don't have a man..and it's driving me nutty. ' i would do that. WOW!..You mean I'm giving out good advise tonight..dang I might be sicker than I thought.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/10/08 06:19 PM
Maybe you could move into the middle,that way you would be close to your family and she would be close to her family.Everyone would be happy. Now that's what I am talking bout..COMPROMISING. Gotta have it in any relationship. May not be a logical answer but at least your trying to work out something that would be for both partys involved. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME my life is about me - who else should it be about? You can't toss away everything you have worked for just to get a boyfriend. Being single is not death. I have alot too. Own my home acreage, 2 stocked ponds, goats,chickens,ducks,dogs,cat. I love my home but if we are talking SERIOUS relationship would consider moving for LOVE. Might be the only chance ya get. Not talking boyfriend...would have to be a deeper level that that. Guess I am not wanting to live in my lovely home until I die.....ALONE. I have no trouble being alone. I have moved twice for work and I am not going to go through it for "love" when all of my experience tells me that despite how wonderful things seem at first, there is a good chance that things will end badly. And then what? More years wasted. Nah - I will enjoy what I have created here and if someone wants to join me, great, if not, great too.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 03/10/08 06:20 PM
I personally feel the guy should move, not saying it's right for every situation, just how I was raised.