Topic: I ponder...
pennyg281's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:14 PM


Because as children we were brutally honest, but society taught us to lie. We are to lie to save others feelings, and be p/c. Sorry, but I don't do it. No p/c here, no lie. If you ask the damn question you really should be ready for the answer. If you post in a hot or not thread, better be ready for the not, lol



okokok...I won't post in that thread laugh


Me either, and I don't usually reply to thoses posts, I don't care to judge people by their physical apperance.

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Sun 03/09/08 11:14 PM
MORALS, most are lacking

tinabelle's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:15 PM

Because as children we were brutally honest, but society taught us to lie. We are to lie to save others feelings, and be p/c. Sorry, but I don't do it. No p/c here, no lie. If you ask the damn question you really should be ready for the answer. If you post in a hot or not thread, better be ready for the not, lol

true that! pc sucks a big butt!

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:15 PM
being honest and rude are different. for example...in relationships. hwy not just be honest about who you are and what you want (just an example)

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Sun 03/09/08 11:16 PM

being honest and rude are different. for example...in relationships. hwy not just be honest about who you are and what you want (just an example)


Thats the way it should be, a real realationship: not a game

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:19 PM

being honest and rude are different. for example...in relationships. hwy not just be honest about who you are and what you want (just an example)
I disagree. they are one in the same. You ask a question be prepared for the answer. I am not saying you should walk up to people and blurt insults like a terets patient, but answer honestly. Sure would cure a lot of stupid questions

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Sun 03/09/08 11:20 PM
the way you say it makes it rude, can always be honest and not rude

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:21 PM


being honest and rude are different. for example...in relationships. hwy not just be honest about who you are and what you want (just an example)
I disagree. they are one in the same. You ask a question be prepared for the answer. I am not saying you should walk up to people and blurt insults like a terets patient, but answer honestly. Sure would cure a lot of stupid questions


lol true but there is a way of telling the truth without it sounding rude too. say it with me my cajun friend TACT laugh flowerforyou

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:22 PM

the way you say it makes it rude, can always be honest and not rude


but to some people just not telling them what they want to hear is rude. If you tell the truth, the people will turn on you. Everyone is in sheep mode, and taught that everything is as they see it. You cannot rock the boat and come off as a nice guy. I gave up on that long ago

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Sun 03/09/08 11:23 PM



being honest and rude are different. for example...in relationships. hwy not just be honest about who you are and what you want (just an example)
I disagree. they are one in the same. You ask a question be prepared for the answer. I am not saying you should walk up to people and blurt insults like a terets patient, but answer honestly. Sure would cure a lot of stupid questions


lol true but there is a way of telling the truth without it sounding rude too. say it with me my cajun friend TACT laugh flowerforyou

if it isn't what they want to hear it doesn't matter if you coat it with honey. You are from texas, you know this.....

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:23 PM
i can admire someone that can just say they want just sex as opposed to someone lying to get it. I may not like or agree with the truth but will always respect it

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Sun 03/09/08 11:24 PM


the way you say it makes it rude, can always be honest and not rude


but to some people just not telling them what they want to hear is rude. If you tell the truth, the people will turn on you. Everyone is in sheep mode, and taught that everything is as they see it. You cannot rock the boat and come off as a nice guy. I gave up on that long ago


Never was a nice guy just honest, Also towards women lying rude a$$holes always get the girls.

Peccy's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:24 PM

i can admire someone that can just say they want just sex as opposed to someone lying to get it. I may not like or agree with the truth but will always respect it
So you turned it into a question huh, good goin!

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:25 PM
if the other person can't handle the truth (in best Jack Nickelson voice) then that is their problem. if you lie or play games...then how can the other even try to deal with it?

do I hear an Amen from the peanut gallery????drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:25 PM


i can admire someone that can just say they want just sex as opposed to someone lying to get it. I may not like or agree with the truth but will always respect it
So you turned it into a question huh, good goin!


you were my inspiration hun flowerforyou laugh :wink:

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Sun 03/09/08 11:26 PM

if the other person can't handle the truth (in best Jack Nickelson voice) then that is their problem. if you lie or play games...then how can the other even try to deal with it?

do I hear an Amen from the peanut gallery????drinker


most can handle it just been coddled too much and don't want to

Peccy's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:26 PM
uh huh

toastedoranges's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:27 PM
Edited by toastedoranges on Sun 03/09/08 11:29 PM

Yes I do that from time to time. Nasty habit I know

why is it so difficult for people to be honest? I'm not talking about when your grnadmother asks if you like the ugly sweater she gave you. I'm talking about plain honesty. why is it so hard to open your mouth and speak?

any thoughts?


probably already been said... but it's fear

some people also have lies as their defensive reaction when they get into ****.

honesty is hard, and so is always showing someone how much you respect them

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:28 PM

i can admire someone that can just say they want just sex as opposed to someone lying to get it. I may not like or agree with the truth but will always respect it
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/91414

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 03/09/08 11:30 PM
Fact is different generation we were raised in, used to be all a man had was hard work and his reputation(honor & work ethic), now doesn't matter-less hardships