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Topic: calling the ex
MicheleNC's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:21 AM

if you were in a relationship and the person your with is calling the ex all the time would you stay with them.noway


Okay, I'm bad, but I did not see if there are kids involved. I talk to my ex mostly every day....ABOUT OUR SON. We are still friends and try really hard to get along and do what is best for the Monster.

If there are no kids involved, relationship is over, little to no contact is what it should be in my opinion.

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Sun 03/09/08 11:24 AM
There are no KIDS together

pippin2424's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:25 AM
depends on what reason the ex is being called. I communicate with my former spouse because we share two young children and I live 1,200 miles away from them. I call on a set day to talk with them and we either communicate then about their affairs or email during the week.

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Sun 03/09/08 11:28 AM
IF there were kids involved that would be different,and there should still be a limit in my mind.

monkdog8888's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:34 AM

Nope... unless it's about a kid they have together, they don't need to be calling each other


I agree. If she is calling about kid o.k. If not, end it. She is going to be cheating on you.

MicheleNC's photo
Sun 03/09/08 11:35 AM
Ahhh, Dome, if there are not kids all that contact is not necessary. I'm sorry, that just sucks. Obviously there are still feelings there.

Step back maybe and see what happens?

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Sun 03/09/08 11:35 AM
I don't have kids.. and I consider my ex to be a very good friend. She is welcome to call me anytime she needs to. Even come up for a visit if she wants to.

I would hope that my current S.O. is secure enough to be ok with that. Chances are, that if she wasn't? That would play out in other aspects of the relationship... and I'd soon be single.

Tantza's photo
Sun 03/09/08 02:49 PM
talk to her!clear everything out,she must have a reason y she is calling her ex.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 03/09/08 03:19 PM
I'm so confused. First we think your S.O. is calling her ex. Then we find out the ex is your ex and calling you.

Now some other S.O. of yours is doing weird relationship bonding.

DUDE.

This is like 'Days of our Lives' or 'As the World Turns'


noway

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Sun 03/09/08 04:10 PM

I'm so confused. First we think your S.O. is calling her ex. Then we find out the ex is your ex and calling you.

Now some other S.O. of yours is doing weird relationship bonding.

DUDE.

This is like 'Days of our Lives' or 'As the World Turns'


noway
hey thanks, it sounds crazy cause it is. your reply made me lol.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 03/09/08 04:24 PM


I'm so confused. First we think your S.O. is calling her ex. Then we find out the ex is your ex and calling you.

Now some other S.O. of yours is doing weird relationship bonding.

DUDE.

This is like 'Days of our Lives' or 'As the World Turns'


noway
hey thanks, it sounds crazy cause it is. your reply made me lol.



I'm here to take one for the team smokin

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