with a person who was totally unsure of themselves?

i'm unsure

No way. Self-effacing types tend to come accross as passive aggressive. And if it is sincere? Then I think I'm too old to try and 'fix' anyone else.

nope.

i'm a pretty dominant person...so whoever i date has to be VERY strong, or i'll end up walking all over them...

I'm not sure

I can't stand people who are unsure of themselves.
Especially in dating! It is a turn off for me most def!
I like a man with a sense of self and knows exaclty what he wants in life and with the "get-r-done" attitude. He he he.

I agree with Lilith, too old to fix someone

They just gotta be sure of one thing: that they'll treat you right and treat you with respect. If they're mistreating you, it's time for them to either change or get lost and don't give them too long to change. Everything else is pretty much negotiable. I'm sure of about 90 percent of what's going on, but there's always a little room for uncertainty in my life. If you're young, you're probably still figuring out things anyway. I used to wonder like crazy about things till I turned 40 or so. In my 30s, I started getting it together, in my 40s, I had it even more together and when I turned 48 I learned some really hard lessons and kind of finished things. I'm still uncertain of which way to go, sometimes, but I know most of the time. Except I'm not really sure about how to do brief e-mails or how to avoid rabbit hunters.

WELL of course I could, well, wait-a-minute. Maybe I could, but then again if I did then well.
I don't know for sure, but I think I might be able to answer this if I could remember what the question was again...lol
Can I ask some friends then get back to you?
NO WAIT, let me ask my mother then I could tell ya,.
NO I have it,,,let me ask the post...no, a Can we talk later please?....lol....lol....lol














NO, I wouldn't want THEM to not know THEMSELVES yet, as I have already MET to many here who DON'T know who, or what they want in life...

then i will be unsure of him too

Not anymore. Went there thinking I could give them the confidence they needed...Wrong!

Wait, are you sure, that they're unsure? Or are you unsure that if they're sure or unsure? Because if you sure, that they're unsure, they might be unsure of sureness, to their unsurity, which could bring about more unsureness.

hahahaha...



same here

I don't know. I can't decide

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i couldn't have said it better

i used to be indecisive,now im not so sure.

i think what they said,lol

No.......wishy washy went out in the 80s!!!

hahahaha