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Topic: the unknowing sleep question
e_king_srv Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 45	Sat 03/08/08 12:15 PM
so heres a question ive always wondered about when youre sleeping and the other person doesnt really show any type of affection like putting his arm around you or stuff like that...is that necessarily a bad sign? or is it just that its like "goddamnit im sleeping!" type of deal

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 03/08/08 12:18 PM
I want them to stay on their side of the bed... I'm sleeping!

evilolive Joined Sun 05/27/07 Posts: 772	Sat 03/08/08 12:18 PM
i think everyones different... how about waking them up and asking wth??

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 03/08/08 12:19 PM
It depends. I TRY to put a arm over as I have to sleep face down, but against her for sure, unless its really hot in the room,lol. I think that showing that, is FELT by your other alot, and makes them feel safe and loved..

e_king_srv Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 45	Sat 03/08/08 12:22 PM
i think everyones different... how about waking them up and asking wth?? i think that would not help the situation very much but knowing me i will probably do that and then regret it lol

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 03/08/08 12:22 PM
For some reason I'm like a little furnace when I'm sleeping.. no one wants to sleep close to me. My ex said I should have "Coleman" tattoo'd on my A$$.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/08/08 12:24 PM
Sometimes people just want to sleep, when I was married we had a king sized bed & somehow I would wind almost falling out because during the night she would get closer & closer, I wouldn't even relize till I woke up

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 03/08/08 12:32 PM
Sometimes people just want to sleep, when I was married we had a king sized bed & somehow I would wind almost falling out because during the night she would get closer & closer, I wouldn't even relize till I woke up lmao Pat that's funny... I used to do that too... snuggler..

smuflicker Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 4019	Sat 03/08/08 12:36 PM
I'm a snuggler but sometimes i need to turn so if i do turn the she cane put her arm around me if she wants

erinestrella Joined Tue 02/13/07 Posts: 330	Sat 03/08/08 12:48 PM
It's not necessarily a bad thing... some people just aren't used to sleeping all cuddly-like.

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Sat 03/08/08 01:28 PM
I once had a girlfriend with a snore that sounded like Darth Vader was in the room warming up the Death Star ..you just can't cuddle with everyone

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Sat 03/08/08 01:31 PM
I once had a girlfriend with a snore that sounded like Darth Vader was in the room warming up the Death Star ..you just can't cuddle with everyone know what ya mean there

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Sat 03/08/08 01:31 PM
I dunno. I'm usually asleep. I schnore sometimes anyway. My wife was always begging come to bed when I played with the computer. She passed away and I wish I'd listened when she asked me to spend time with her.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 03/08/08 01:34 PM
like to lay on his chest but only if its love

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 03/08/08 01:39 PM
For some reason I'm like a little furnace when I'm sleeping.. no one wants to sleep close to me. My ex said I should have "Coleman" tattoo'd on my A$$. did you get one? seriously though It's all personal preference isn't it? Some people can't get a good night of sleep with someone laying all over them. Others can't do without lots of contact. Still others need a minimal amount of contact as though breaking that thread will somehow disconnect them. We are all different!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 03/08/08 01:54 PM
I like to snuggle and cuddle while I am sleeping so wrap the arms all the way around