so what happened

He was 13 years younger and I just felt like he was being cheated. He
wanted to have kids and I already had mine...so I ended things, he still
calls me and asked me out for dinner, but I won't go..I tell him he
needs to date women his own age.
He did have a daughter, so that is a good thing!

i said most women. i know it's like any thing else and you can't say
every woman but all the women i talk to ask how tall you are . one of
my aunts married a man who is a little shorter than her

well you did on what you have to do in lif ei guess

Let me ask you guys this??? Do you think that its ok to date someone no
matter how much age difference there is? Just so they are over 21?

well it depends if you truely lov ethem or not if you and him dont click
dont even bothe r with him

i do. if you get along and it's what you want , why not
if someone has a problem with it i get to say you ain't taking her home
i am

well its kind of funny because when he said what year he was born in I
thought OMG I was 19!! The thing is, we do click, but he is so young. We
have been friends for almost 3 years now, and we text each other every
day...but I am very unsure of what I should do. We have went out to
dinner, but I was sitting there thinking. I wonder how many people think
he is my son!

i don't think you should worry about what other people think.
do you honestly think you are going to find someone on here that is
better and seriously come on, it's been 3 yrs. and he still comes around
and brings it up

Honestly since I have been on here, I have came to the conclusion that I
am not ready to date. I need to get a few things fixed before I even
start dating! But, no I don't think I was going to find "true" love on
here...this is just a fun thing!

and i think that end this topic

There can be pluses in dating younger and there can be drawbacks too.
I married 7 yrs younger and he was never so needy til we said I do but
all of a sudden he couldnt do a thing for himself. I was his "mother"
and I already have 3 kids so I wasnt real happy.I was looking for a
partner not another dependant.We divorced after 7 yrs- I couldnt carry
it all by myself and I couldnt rely on him so.
On the other hand I lived with an Italian man younger than me for about
3 yrs. He is my soul mate but he got cold feet and backed out of the
realtionship. He is a workaholic so he felt he
he was robbing us of time together. I wasnt bothered by it but he was.
We are still great friends 10 yrs later.

I like men taller than I am.

Hows 4'11 3/4?? she was cute too.. ever notice the shorties really know
how to squeek to get the grease on the wheel...

i havent been with a woman as tall or even close to as tall as me yet im
6'3" incase you were woundering but its kinda hard for me to find a
woman even close to as tall as me

I have dated both short and tall and those in the middle. I do not find
height to be a problem unless they are to one of the extremes.

Age issue does have limits. When you are older(30 up) most of us have
settled down. A 30 yo can easily have a great relationship with someone
in their 50s. I know a couple couples like this. But when you get below
30 it really depends on how mature the younger person is. I have seen a
few 18 yo in my life time that were done partying and sowing their wild
oat and ready to settle down and showed they could be mature. But this
is rare. At 25 yo most are ready to settle down but a few are not.
Ofcourse you have to click, be attracted to each other(not 100%
physical).

My hun is like 5 inches taller than me

i'm almost 6'1, so i tend to stick with guys 6'0 and over, lol

I LOVE ladies who hit my lips right,,,,,,,HERE!!!!!LOL

well....not too tall otherwise i will look really really short instead
of just short (i'm only 5'2")