How long does it take to find someone on here?
How long does it take to really have a date?
How long does it take to feel like you know someone?
How long does it take to fall in-LOVE with them?
How long does it take to THINK marrage?


I had ALL these questions when I first came on here.
I found love here at one time, but then lost it as easy as it came to me. SHE came here from no-where-seen. And totally won my heart. We met and had one of the best times of my life.
We both felt love. But I won't settle for un-truths or mis-leadings, so WE fell out of love.
I was here for about two months before asking the most beautiful lady on here for a date, she accepted.
And I thought WOW...Then I found out she had met another before our date, and WE never even got a chance to meet.
I then asked another for a date here and we met, she was beautiful, but WE just DIDN'T CLICK.
Then I met another and tried once again to FEEL that great power of US, but after two months WE fell apart, alot because she had also mis-lead me on the person that she told me she was.
I have met in WORDS here a BUNCH of GOOD people and call them my FRIENDS.
And MY FRIENDS HERE are just like REAL FRIENDS in life, I would meet and spend a day with ANY of them. If I could.
I have met about eight people from here in person and HAVE no regrets with doing that..They all remain my friends and I theirs.
But to be VERY REAL with readers here, THIS PLACE.
The internet, is feeled with deceptions and people come on here because THEY (most) have some problems with MEETING people in their off sight lives.
I was ONCE told by a lady here who was trying to be cruel, she said. I HAVE A REAL LIFE.....NOT JUST ON HERE...
Well, lol I thought ok, so we ALL DO..
Then at that time I realized, I DIDN'T have a real life in this world , with other people or even friends...JUST HERE..
I know why, I moved to a new city.
But it did HIT my heart with where I was in life.
And then I thought about alot of the folks I had met on here, and realized MANY,,,had their OWN issue's as to WHERE their lives were at.
Some suffered depression, some their weight was (in their minds)
their problem, some anti-social, AGE,and ALOT just PLAY HERE on here. NEVER wanting ANYONE to REALLY get close to, or TRY TO GET YA, just to RUN AWAY from YOU?
But NORMAL, what MOST see as THAT???? lol
Is HARD to find here, and in your real life as well..
But HERE, we WILL TEND TO hear FROM OUR MINDS, AND not WANT TO HEAR FROM OUR HEARTS.
Many here have handicaps, and many LIVE with PASTS PAINS that THEY cannot get rid of?

Some with PROBLEMS that KEEP THEM single because THEY don't realize THEY have one.

I just wanted to express some of MY real experiences
on here with who ever took the time to read.
And by the way, I also have some issues in life, but NONE, that I am ashamed of having or being.
I ask alot of questions, and if I find someone to CHANGE what they had already told me or add to it, IM going to wonder and ASK why? I HOLD someones TRUTH to as high a level as I do my own. And I don't lie or mislead anyone. And I will not accept someone who would do that.

to answer your question it takes roughly 7.9 years.....

NOPE,,,,,LIFE!!!!!!!

SENTENCED TO LIFE ON JSH!!!!!

nice read...kudos....

hmmmmm

WOW!!!! Thanks for sharing your story with us.

If anybody here NOW, does know me or what kind of a guy I am, HERE, and in REAL LIFE.
Then just know that I believe in having FUN, BUT NOT with my heart or OTHERS.
I TRY very HARD to bring about TRUTH in YOUR-SELF, and TRUTH on HERE. Because without "THAT", why even TRY TO PRETEND in who YOU are, Or what your about?
IM FAR FROM A PERFECT person, and DON'T LOOK for THAT in ANOTHER
But I have to, like we ALL. Give time to lesten and to TRY and know another here through their TYPE,,,
And I have had many on here try to PLAY, and THAT bothers me greatly..
But if YOU are REAL about WHO you are. YOU will NEVER have to worry about truth, because YOU won't ever tell but ONE STORY!

Hey, ok,,,JUST BURY "THIS" and "ME",,,ok?
Who the hell "WANTS" "REAL", when YOU can have all the BULL/$HIT
that "FAKE" people can GIVE "YOU" here........?
Lots of "FAKE" heart,,,,And LOTS of "WORDS" w/o any REAL meaning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have a beautiful night and DAy!!

OK????
WHAT????? Ask and I will try my BEST to answer..... OK???

HERE LET ME HELP....BURY """"""THIS""""""

Trust is the best way for any relationship to grow..be it friendship or more; so much agree!

I do think there are real people here, though, or at least I sure hope so!!

Terry I ask myself that everyday how long,but it's not up to me.I continue to be real and honest,and if we are I believe it will happen,Wish you the best

Thanks Pkh, I hope so to. For everyone here.