i once knew what i wanted to do in my life but the first wife screwed that up . then came the drinking,i stopped that 3 years into it and found the 2nd wife,i finally stopped in my shoes and said to myself "i am finally where i want to be". and wouldnt you know it the 2nd wife gets lung cancer and dies 2 months later after 7 months of being sad and in my own misery<--did i spell that right? i went to church and i now understand that i have to change my life to be happy again.which i am now my life is great...i got laid off of work today but that is good(long story).and now...in my life ...i have no effin clue what to do next...

not only no, but H***LL no

No

no, if they havnt decided then, when will they

Yes, I'd give it a try, see where it goes.

Sure if they had something in mind.

yes,maybe i wont get in the way of their goals.

Why not? If they've settled by 35 that wouldn't necessarily be a good thing.

Theres this woman at work, thats like that, I think shes 29. works P-T just for extra cash. same level as me though kind of weird. But Id totally marry her, if she wasnt already married. Shes just really funt o be around and talk with.

I guess it just depends on the person.

Agree.