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first i thought of it,but he has problems at home,he needs to run the family business.
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well i wantto find something about him ,to be secure of what he is and works,,...stuff like that,but what do i ask him?
wich way? |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 03/07/08 04:21 PM
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LadyofMagic.... I don't mean to offend you in any way... but why don't you tell people you are in a wheelchair before you meet them?
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I have a question for everybody,and i am thankfull for your time. Do u believe in relationship through chat? Does anybody experinced it,and what can you tell me about it?  I don't believe in it. 
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first i thought of it,but he has problems at home,he needs to run the family business. Then if you are still available when he is ready to take the time.. meet him. But do not invest more than you can afford to lose, or put your life on hold for an indefinite. |
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i am not in a wheelchair or u didnt wrote to me??
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I tried that way too..The guy I talked to for a year..I told b4 hand..and he couldn't handle it..so I figured maybe if I just show them that I'm no different from any other girl they date that it would go better..and it didn't.
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LadyofMagic~ That seems like lying by omission to me. It would be like me not telling a guy I had a child... and hoping he would be okay once he found out, and then being upset he left after I did not tell him.
Tantza~ sorry not that was not to you. |
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hmmm
still dont know what to do. 
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Well..as I said..I tried it both ways and neither way worked for me.
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hmmm still dont know what to do. How long are you willing to wait? |
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How long are you willing to wait? i really like this guy and he likes me,i dont know till he get bored of caht with me or he comes here and meet me.... |
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I'm just saying I was in a similiar situation, it went on forever and I never met him. Ever. It was always something.
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can u give me an example?
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First, it was work. Then his mother got ill. Then after his mother passed away he had to work again becuase he spent all his money while she was ill... This went on for over a year. Now, I dated in the meantime (I did wait about six months), but in retrospect I would've said forget it, meet me or see ya. I'm certainly no longer as easily fooled...
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First, it was work. Then his mother got ill. Then after his mother passed away he had to work again becuase he spent all his money while she was ill... This went on for over a year. Now, I dated in the meantime (I did wait about six months), but in retrospect I would've said forget it, meet me or see ya. I'm certainly no longer as easily fooled... well its the known problems.and im willing to waite but im gonna date in the mean time,but he doesnt want to.its like we met and we felt in love(not me),and plann to spent the life togheter,but im am young and beside i want proves that hes for real,dont know how to find out. 
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If you give up anything to go see him, since he is countries away as you said, is it going to be worth it?
Will you be able to go back to where you're from without any hardship? Where would you stay if you went to visit him? Do you really want to get involved with someone who has already admitted having "family problems at home"? What if his "family problems" are that he's married and cheating? These are things you need to think about. Along with LOTS of other things. Anytime you're trying to decide something, make a list of positive things and negative things and see which one is longer.. that usually helps. |
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If you give up anything to go see him, since he is countries away as you said, is it going to be worth it? Will you be able to go back to where you're from without any hardship? Where would you stay if you went to visit him? Do you really want to get involved with someone who has already admitted having "family problems at home"? What if his "family problems" are that he's married and cheating? These are things you need to think about. Along with LOTS of other things. Anytime you're trying to decide something, make a list of positive things and negative things and see which one is longer.. that usually helps. well i see there are a lot and the most i know answer and its positive,but i have to do the list of pos and neg things. thanks a lot. |
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We had already talked about pretty much everything possible to talk about before I ever got there, so there was almost nothing left to say. How is this even possible? Have you ever talked to A MAN for a year and a half for 4-10 hrs every single day? I have. And it's very nice. Mine never went anywhere though, we eventually stopped talking altogether. :( |
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