i hear alot of people on here say things like girls play with guys emotions or guys are complete jerks why is that then that your on here tryna meet people, not all guys or girls are like that. i just wish people would have a more opened mind when it comes to the opposite sex

Amen

i mean honestly all people are diffrent and im tired of being labeled cuz some girls play games

You're preaching to the choir....

Thats never going to go away!!

yea well i wanna know why its like that

Some people really live off of stereotypes. It is the bane of our society.

Because people, in general, base what they will think will happen to them in the future on what has happened to them in the past. I'm not saying it's right... but people do it. Some are cautious, and some are jaded. And then there are those that just want to date. Wade through the mess and with luck you'll find an openminded person.

Well said Lilith..

Thanks, Pat.

what if a closed minds just keep all on track to where we are going, each their own destiny, as what gave themself their own brain, and what make their own mind closed or open but time itself....so then time is the outside force that is released to each all they need.....yea, certainly not going to be always what one thinks they want, but if a bigger reason is known sure takes away most the pain

Don't worry about what alot of people think.
I'm sure your here for the man that stops long enough to get to know you.And see what kinda person you realy are.The rest can <kiss this>And i don't mean on my rosy red lipps!!

I haven't seen a lot of put downs like that on here. You can't control what other people think: just what you do, you know?

"Because people, in general, base what they will think will happen to them in the future on what has happened to them in the past. I'm not saying it's right".......this is so HUGE.....to figure out how not to see the future thru the window of the past and all happiness cannot help but overtake.....i wonder how this be done

Davidben.... do not start.

OMG.....you do not believe in my respect of you i can see amd that is ok, but i said just what i thought, that what you see is HUGE, and i think anybody could see that, and just wondered what if any morem thoughts you had....this is and was my only intent....i think everything has something to offer another if they are willing to listen long enough, and the ones i have found i resisted the most have taught me the most, and so you now are in that category.....bantor and open talk is good and i love it and it make me see more, that is all

If you are honestly requesting my thoughts... then here they are:

I believe our experiences shape us into who we are. They do not define what we are, nor should the indiscretions of others be held onto those we meet in the future. If I kept getting slapped in the face every time I told someone something, eventually I'd learn to re-word what I wanted to say. I think if people took what life throws at them as a learning experience and an opportunity for growth, especially in dating, it would be a glass half-full situation.

....i would have to say i have learned the same myself to be true by experince and so agree completely.....like everything has to be thought of as a good to see the wisdom in it.....i like it

Its because women are evil. I mean, the first woman was Eve and she screwed it up for the rest of us

I just adore apples. And apple pie... yummmm.