TO TELL ME WHY YOU CHEAT ON WOMEN. MY MAN IS IN REHAB NOW AND WANTS TO
EVENTUALLY COME BACK. HE HAS NEVER BEEN IN REHAB BEFORE BUT I HAVE TAKEN
HIM BACK TIME AND TIME AGAIN. WHY DO I DO THIS? WHY AM I SO ADDICTED TO
THIS MAN? I AM 46 AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 8 YEARS. HE
DRINKS RARELY BUT WHEN HE DOES, HE CANNOT STOP AND THEN GETS VIOLENT.
NOT PHYSICALLY TO ME OR ANYONE, BUT EMOTIONALLY MEAN AND THEN JUST
LEAVES AND THEN CHEATS, ETC. I NEED TO HEAR FROM OTHERS PLEASE.

Once they cheat, I say it should be over. I know what you're going
through except I went through it for 20 years until he screwed around
and got caught. Now he's gone and I am having more fun now that I live
life my way. Please let him go!!! You can do better.

hi sally struthers how's mike doing?

why do you do it? hmm I have no idea maybe people like you are gluttons
for punishment if you realize you should not be with him then kick him
to the curb............

my wife cheated on me and now is asking for everything we had
togeather..I stood by her through rehab, then drugs again, loss of
almost everything we had due to drugs, 1 year in jail. and then she
meets a co-worker and they go off and do their own thing, totally
tearing up my family (we have two young children)..For some unknow
reason I would still take her back if she were to come home..Why? I have
no idea..I dont understand why people cheat friggin sucks

it's the idea that you love the person,i went through my guy
cheating,drinking but then i just realized im better off without
him.being alone isn't that bad.

Bammer, takes time buddy. I been divorced for over 2 years now. Beleive
me, the time will come when you will have had enough!

You are co-dependent, hon. You need help as badly, or more, than he does
in order to break the cycle and emotions that feed your addiction to him
and his dysfunction. Can't live w/ him, can't live w/out? I have been
there, done that. Cut him off...no contact AT ALL until you know what
YOU want and what you will accept.

Ya know..I really dont think that I want her back..She is attempting to
only allow me a couple days a week to be with my girls..I have my ducks
in a row and think I can hold my own in court, as she basically left me
and my girls for a week before she served me with papres..she is the
cheating drunk, who hangs out with drunks on the nights she is to be
with the girls (I take them as often as I can)..I was a fighter for
years (Bammer) and I gave up fighting when my oldest was born..I think I
just dont want to fight anymore..thats why I would take her
back..although I just got off the phone with her and she pissed me off
but good..LOL