Topic: "SPACE"
chuck366's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:22 PM
Kick her to the curb, you deserve more than that

dcrdnk's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:23 PM

Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?


nice way of sayin' SEE YA sad sad

glasses

BLAKJAQ's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:29 PM
ok, maybe she feels suffocated. maybe you don't realize it. maybe she wants out, PERIOD. could be anything. Maybe there is someone else, maybe she just wants to be single. Could be anything, but I got to agree, kick her a** to the curb and move on, chere. Usually a BIG RED FLAG, when someone says they want "space"

chuck366's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:30 PM

ok, maybe she feels suffocated. maybe you don't realize it. maybe she wants out, PERIOD. could be anything. Maybe there is someone else, maybe she just wants to be single. Could be anything, but I got to agree, kick her a** to the curb and move on, chere. Usually a BIG RED FLAG, when someone says they want "space"


Either she doesn t dig you or has PMS.

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:40 PM


ok, maybe she feels suffocated. maybe you don't realize it. maybe she wants out, PERIOD. could be anything. Maybe there is someone else, maybe she just wants to be single. Could be anything, but I got to agree, kick her a** to the curb and move on, chere. Usually a BIG RED FLAG, when someone says they want "space"


Either she doesn t dig you or has PMS.



Just like the book "he's not that into you" ... works the other way around too ..................... ah living in Denial is great eh?

:tongue:

BLAKJAQ's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:44 PM
they do say denial is a state of mind, lol. I really gotta throw it back to ya'll, lmao. I was just trying to cover all the bases, lol. It does work both ways, true. Loved, I'm Just Not That Into You, too, lol. Makes sense.

BLAKJAQ's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:45 PM
NOOOO, just remembered, it's a river in Egypt, lol. (I know, lame) sorry

no photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:55 PM

Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?

It means you are being clingy.

chuck366's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:56 PM


Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?

It means you are being clingy.


More like being de-clinged

BLAKJAQ's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:57 PM
clingy--is a good way to put it. But she should just be done with it. A clean break is better than dragging it out. Ya know.

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Fri 03/07/08 01:13 PM



Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?

It means you are being clingy.


More like being de-clinged

he's being de-clinged cuz a guy shouldn't be clingy in the first place ohwell

BLAKJAQ's photo
Sat 03/08/08 06:03 PM
sorry, meant to say He instead of She. Was answering email at the same time....

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/08/08 06:03 PM
It's over!!!!!!

no photo
Sat 03/08/08 06:06 PM
Edited by Jamie82 on Sat 03/08/08 06:06 PM
Usually it means they arent sure what they want. Or that things are getting too serious for them. But when someone puts it that way it usually means they dont want to let go completely but they arent sure how much they want either.

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 03/08/08 06:10 PM

Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?


Too lazy to read all the responses...

In my personal history, it means I want to break up with you, but I don't know how. Maybe if I ask for space, you will do the breaking up.

Happened to me in January. Knew in my gut it was going to happen, there was someone else, he made excuses, I called him on it, and then we were over.

As a good friend said to me, if someone says "I don't know what I want"...this means "I don't know what I want, but I know it is not YOU!" In hindsight I can see she is right.

Let us know what happens? flowerforyou M

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Sun 03/09/08 09:49 AM

Well answer me this...when the person your dating say's they need "space" what does that mean?


it's the polite of telling the person to go to "Outer Space"

bad_girl's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:50 AM
Sounds to me like it is her way of saying

I am not ready yet

HMontana's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:53 AM
Edited by HMontana on Sun 03/09/08 09:59 AM


Maybe you're blowing this all outta proportion. Are you sure she didn't say, "I need SpaceBags" - and now she's really pi$$ed because you haven't gotten them yet?glasses huh



mry's photo
Sun 03/09/08 05:51 PM
Geeze people, maybe she just needs time to think about things...it does NOT mean its over!

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:32 PM
Well when ever I have heard that said to others it always ends up the other person is not sure that they want to be with them anymore. 90% of the time they are not happy with that person and want time to look at the situation and normaly they end up splitting in the long run.

Myself I have never used that line if it is over it is over have the guts to own up to it if its not there its not there. bigsmile