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Topic: would you change
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Thu 03/06/08 06:18 PM
would you change your activities and hobbies if you were in another relationship? I would probably stop doing almost everything that I do to 'pass the time'. Most of my hobbies and activities are really because Im single and my friends suck. indifferent I was just curious if anyone else would change what they consider fun.

I see people post interests on their personals about what they enjoy. I kind of find it a turn off because if I dont match, I feel like I would be taking away from their fun... I know they post them to connect with people with similar interests, but it really narrows searches, and its already hard to find people who are intelligent enough to even respond...

Jill298's photo
Thu 03/06/08 06:21 PM
God I hope so... lol I don't wanna get into a relationship so I can continue being bored

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/06/08 06:24 PM
flowerforyou If your in a relationship, you will do what the other person thinks is funflowerforyou

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Thu 03/06/08 06:26 PM

flowerforyou If your in a relationship, you will do what the other person thinks is funflowerforyou

depends what they call fun :smile:

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Thu 03/06/08 06:26 PM
No i wouldn't change what I do.

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Thu 03/06/08 06:27 PM

flowerforyou If your in a relationship, you will do what the other person thinks is funflowerforyou


so Ill do what she thinks is fun because shes doing what I think is fun, because Im doing what she thinks is fun?! How does that work? huh we'd just stand around smiling all day and night...

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Thu 03/06/08 06:27 PM
If I change what I do....then I am not me anymore...


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Thu 03/06/08 06:32 PM
I cant changelaugh my dog wont let melaugh she loves chasing ducks just as mutch if not more than I do:wink: laugh drinker

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Thu 03/06/08 06:37 PM

If I change what I do....then I am not me anymore...



not your personailty, unless you are what you do...

IDK. I eat out a lot, because cooking for yourself just isnt worth it. Id start cooking again if I actually had someone worth cooking for. flowerforyou but Im probably just wishing. indifferent

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Thu 03/06/08 06:39 PM
i got into more new hobbies because of my friends,i got alot of awsome friends who know how to have fun,plus im a better person now,cause my friends were there for me.

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Thu 03/06/08 06:40 PM
good answer UplandHunter! drinker
I would keep my same interests and hobbies and hope to share in some new interests if and when I ever find a new relationship.

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Thu 03/06/08 06:43 PM
I would be willing to make comprimises, if something bothered the guy, as I hope he would for me. :heart: is fun, but takes work.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 03/06/08 06:45 PM
Probably some..

Jill298's photo
Thu 03/06/08 06:46 PM
I would hope we had things in common that liked to do together

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Thu 03/06/08 06:48 PM
I love to try new things. Maybe I would find a new favorite thing???

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Thu 03/06/08 08:37 PM
Now my typo lives on.........grumble

compromises

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Thu 03/06/08 08:42 PM
I don't see how I can change what I am interested in. I like hiking - would I stop liking it if I got into a relationship? That seems fairly ridiculous. My interests are things that interest me; not merely things I do to pass the time until someone comes along. I think the ideal mix is to share some of your interests with your significant other, and have some that are only yours; and they have some that are only theirs. So you have shared interests and space.

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Thu 03/06/08 08:44 PM

would you change your activities and hobbies if you were in another relationship? I would probably stop doing almost everything that I do to 'pass the time'. Most of my hobbies and activities are really because Im single and my friends suck. indifferent I was just curious if anyone else would change what they consider fun.

I see people post interests on their personals about what they enjoy. I kind of find it a turn off because if I dont match, I feel like I would be taking away from their fun... I know they post them to connect with people with similar interests, but it really narrows searches, and its already hard to find people who are intelligent enough to even respond...


you think people who have interests are a turn off?

Don't you have interests? If you like white water rafting, camping and hiking, you may not want to hook up with someone who likes poerty readings and museum trips. YOu need to have some commonality.

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Thu 03/06/08 08:45 PM
I wouldnt change my hobbies. I think its good to share hobbies like show your significant other some of the things you like to do and vice versa. It's all about learning and experiencing new things together too.

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Thu 03/06/08 08:53 PM
I am who I am and won't change for anyone

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