Why dont I get mail from any ladies on here is it because I live in Iowa or profile bad or just not goodlooking enuogh for them?

could be anything...dunno..good luck!

LOL I don't think women are just anti-Iowa

How about you make first contact? most of us ladies are in the forums

good luck

you're new, you hardly have any posts... just jump in the forums more, talk to people, you will get mail, I promise

Yes, please do listen to Miss Jill. She is right.

It takes some patience. And when you do hear from someone remember your netiquette and dont be a creep. And be honest Thats the best i can tell ya

Yea what he said !!! cheers to that and good luck

Yep I agree

It helps to establish a presence in the forums. "Helps," insofar as getting people to notice you, anyway....I get tons of e-mail here....and I never write to anybody first....

I have emailed alot of people they never write back

That never worked for me either. When I first signed up here, I e-mailed some of the locals, and NEVER got a reply. I said screw it, posted 8000 times, and now I get all kinds of e-mail. Never from anyone within 897,000 miles, but you can't have everything.

I won't e-mail anybody first anymore, it's a waste of time. I figure the people who want to talk to me can write to me, and then I gave them some reasons to talk to me -- primarily my forum posts. It's not an ideal system, but it does get some results.