Long story short, many years ago the lord blessed me with my son. I was 16, and my mother put me out of her house. I moved in with my best friends family until I had my son. When he turned 2 weeks old I got my first apt. Over the years we lost contact with each other, but about 2 months ago, we crossed paths again, and started hanging out, me, her, her kids, and mine, all the time. She is pregnant now, and I wanted to throw her the biggest and best baby shower anyone could have, what her and her family did for me, I could never pay back, so I have been planning it for weeks now. Tonight I asked her to come over for dinner and we could do the invitations because I needed her help with names and addresses of her family. I could tell she really didnt want to do this to begin with, but then my son came into the room and he passed gas. Well she just got up and told her kids to come on, and left my house. After she texted me some pretty hurtful texts, and I have just been crying since this happened. My goodness, my son is 12, and he is at home remind you... Now by the end of the night, and all the terrible things she said to me, she texted me and told me how sorry she was, and that she just has a big mouth... I am truly truly upset, and the way I feel is, you can talk about me or try to mistreat me all you want, but don't FUC- with my kids...... I am just so hurt right now, I can hardly see I have cried so much.

I have a saying, "Don't get the mama mad."

sorry to hear that

Let it blow over for acouple of days. if she is expecting, maybe her hormones are raging and she is feeling a bit out of control.....Everone behaves badly sometimes. If you love her, you will let it go and thalk it through later..
JMO

i'm sorry darling.she is pregnant and her hormones are probaly going crazy.however that was rude of your son.things happen.did he intentionly do that or accident?my nine yr old would never do that in front of company.maybe her kids dont do that sort of thing.i do think it was nice of you to plan her a shower and she acted in a rude manner.feel better dear sometimes even our friends hurt our feelings

short?

ya I agree bein prego is tuff - and a true friend will still be there in the end

Yep probbley the hormones...
I know your hurt. You wanted to do something to show your appreciation. Give her some time to chill.
Show her a friend can forgive...


and heres a (((Hug))) for you!

p.s.) you said she didnt act like she wanted the party.
Perhaps she is going through some crap of her own
right now and she just lashed out at you...

Communication is a great thing. there can be alot happing inside and outside her right now. You seem like a very loving friend, wait and let the dust settle and then start the communication again. It could be worth the effort. I do know it make ya mad when you child is "attacked" but if he acted inappropertely then you need to step back and take a look, do you condone his actions?

I hope all goes well for you