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onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 05:53 PM
I need advice on how to ask someone out. I have a plan mapped out sort of. Anyway what is a better way to ask someone out between these two options. The first is "i'm getting a cup of coffee after class want to join?". The second is "hey want to grab a cup of coffee with me?".

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Tue 03/04/08 05:55 PM
I seriously think your over-thinking this one...

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Tue 03/04/08 05:56 PM
wow

onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 05:56 PM
I've never asked anyone out before..

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 03/04/08 05:56 PM
Just say what comes to mind in the moment, no matter the plan, it always changes last second

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Tue 03/04/08 05:57 PM
I seriously think your over-thinking this one... I agree. Just be yourself, and if that doesnt work...Just grab her by the hair and pull her face close to yours and say "We gonna go on a date aight!?"

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 03/04/08 05:57 PM
#2

onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 05:58 PM
I agree I like #2 more. #1 Sounds like i'm doing something already and maybe including you.

kfab Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 388	Tue 03/04/08 05:59 PM
Lord just ask the worst that can happen is she will say no but you won't know that will you till you try

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Tue 03/04/08 06:00 PM
I've never asked anyone out before.. Dude your 27...either your lying or the ladies really need to help him

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Tue 03/04/08 06:01 PM
as Gen. Patton(i think it was) said, "A good plan executed violently today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow."

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 03/04/08 06:01 PM
I need advice on how to ask someone out. I have a plan mapped out sort of. Anyway what is a better way to ask someone out between these two options. The first is "i'm getting a cup of coffee after class want to join?". The second is "hey want to grab a cup of coffee with me?". You're kidding ............. right?

onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 06:01 PM
Eh i'm not 27.. sorry i dont know why it says that i'm 18.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Tue 03/04/08 06:03 PM
Either would work,just be yourself, good luck

onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 06:03 PM
Well just being myself means I would sit there and not say anything. ha i'm too quiet.

davo3 Joined Tue 01/09/07 Posts: 146	Tue 03/04/08 06:09 PM
"i'm getting a cup of coffee after class want to join?" this one is the better of the two. it shows that youre going to do it with or without her. if she says no, then subtly hint that you can take another friend instead. dont make it look like a date tho, is the key. make it very spontaneous and fun. never ask a woman you have your eye on a yes or no question.

davo3 Joined Tue 01/09/07 Posts: 146	Tue 03/04/08 06:10 PM
also: be yourself is miselading advice. be your best self you can be. sell yourself without bragging. subtlties, man. chicks will pick up on them

onlyheretosee Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 105	Tue 03/04/08 06:13 PM
Thanks..

Tob77 Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 236	Tue 03/04/08 06:24 PM
Ninja...what were you thinking

1956CLEO Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 4518	Tue 03/04/08 06:29 PM
I'd go with #2, either one is ok though.