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This is getting ridiculous by the way.
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I have been cheated on twice and left both times. I would never give them a chance to do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater.  That's not true... I cheated once in a relationship... and never did it again in my whole entire life... and the guy never knew about it... So once a cheater always a cheater..... only true for people who are weak... Only weak people cheat.... I can say that... I cheated.. I was weak... You only stated you never did it again, but never stated that you would never do it again. I think if all the factors were right, you would do it again. I have had plenty of opportunity in my lifetime to cheat, but it is not in my heart. I have never cheated, and never thought about cheating. I don't care what the circumstance is, or was.  Oh I'm sorry so you ASS-U-ME that I would do it again... I thought by saying I did It once and only once that would elude to the fact that I would never do it again.... also by saying that I learned from my MISTAKES that also would imply that I found it to be a MISTAKE and I being a logical person don't make the same MISTAKES repeatedly... I'm sorry let me be more clear on this subject then I cheated once on my ex... I felt guilt that I have never felt in my life, I felt like the world came crashing down on me, and he never found out... so it was what I did to myself that made me feel that way. I never did it again, and would never put myself in that position to do that to someone I loved let alone to do it to myself.... I made a MISTAKE... I paid the consequences, and I learned from my past..... and I find no reason to ever do that again... I'm sorry, does this clear things up better now? That's better I can work with that.  Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental
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I cheated once on my ex... I felt guilt that I have never felt in my life, I felt like the world came crashing down on me, and he never found out... so it was what I did to myself that made me feel that way. I never did it again, and would never put myself in that position to do that to someone I loved let alone to do it to myself.... I made a MISTAKE... I paid the consequences, and I learned from my past..... and I find no reason to ever do that again... I absolutly did answer if I would do it again,..... on many ocasions I answered that NO I would never do it again..... actually in 2 places I said I would never do it again... |
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You try to judge my character, when you admit to cheating?  I don't even know what that means?????? They were trying to say who are you to pass judgement when you yourself cheated. Where did I pass judgement on anyone??? Prejudging someone is just that prejudgeing someone.... that's not passing judgement... that is stating a fact. |
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Yes. My ex was quite the flirt... and there was a lot of "emotional cheating"... but we'd go to parties, and Id walk into the room and catch him smacking a girls tush or playfully touching. There were 2 occasions where a 3rd party told me he kissed another girl.. but I tried to not hold that against him since I didnt witness it myself. (benefit of the doubt, if you will)
so we broke up. and then he convinced me to come visit him and hang out, and i did... and he managed to convince me of how much he loved and missed me.. kissing the ground i walk on and luring me into bed... successfully... and in the morning his phone made the text alert sound, and i read it.. and it was from another girl!! It was like "good morning baby. i cant wait to see you tonight. dont forget... 7 oclock. I love you. byez" and then i poked through his phone and he had mass text messages.. he'd text "hey beautiful, i just wanted you to know i was thinking about you" to like 4 different girls!!! I took all that as a learning experience. Cheat on me... and you die. 
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Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental Save it... it means nothing to me now.... |
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No way Jose!
My motto: "Hurt me once~shame on you, hurt me twice~shame on me." |
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Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental Save it... it means nothing to me now.... Now that shows your true character
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Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental Save it... it means nothing to me now.... I was sincere in my apollogy.
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Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental Save it... it means nothing to me now.... Now that shows your true character yep it sure does.... before you would trust what I said, you ran me threw the hoops... then and only then did you trust or accept what I said.... I don't really want your appology.... You are not the kind of person that I associate with... so your appology really means nothing to me.... Do I dislike you.... NO... I just have no use for you... that's all.... |
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Now I apollogize to you for being so judgemental Save it... it means nothing to me now.... Now that shows your true character yep it sure does.... before you would trust what I said, you ran me threw the hoops... then and only then did you trust or accept what I said.... I don't really want your appology.... You are not the kind of person that I associate with... so your appology really means nothing to me.... Do I dislike you.... NO... I just have no use for you... that's all.... Ok |
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yep learned a valuable lesson.people will stab you in the back protect yourself .
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with someone who cheated on you? If so did they do it again? I would not, trust is important to me.
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nope, wouldn't do it
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