(((((((Princess))))))) U r sooo right and I told her that she should have used protection in the first place since she didn't know him very well!!

Hey, this girl didn't get a free Dodge Stratus from a stranger in a mall parking lot once, did she?

Even a condom can't prevent STD's...

Mostly it's who you choose in a partner; you lay down with dogs, you wake up with fleas. Simple and enough said.

Even a condom can't prevent STD's...

Mostly it's who you choose in a partner; you lay down with dogs, you wake up with fleas. Simple and enough said.

I really don't see how he can be a "great guy aside from the fact that he put her at risk for herpes"

So...she had sex with him the first night...and didn't use a condom. I would say they're both pretty ignorant for that. At least he had the balls to tell her before it happened a second time. She had the right to make a choice...and the choice is hers..not yours.

Ok so my friend has been seeing this guy for a little bit, they are not serious but she is starting to have feelings for him.
The problem is that the first nite they had sex they both enjoyed themselves and he im'd her the next day and wanted to see her again so he showed up after he got off work and everything was cool and they had a lot of fun drinkin and watchin movies and all that!! Then the next morning he wakes her up at like 4am to have sex but before they did he said he wanted to talk to her for a min and proceeded to tell her that he has "Herpes" and that he is not seriouse about anyone right now he is just having fun and enjoying himself and his freedom!!
WTF people for real she really likes this dude but he is not feelin her like that, what can I tell her?? I am at a loss here because I love her and I wantwhats best for her and the guy is a great guy aside from the fact that he chose to put her at risk instead of being honest in the beginning because he was affraid he wouldn't get none.
I really need some good advice right now cus what I am telling her she is not listening to cus like I said she really likes him and the way he makes her feel not just sexually...like I said he is good to her and he is a great guy buuuut he should have been a man and been honest with her from jump if he cared about her even just a little bit.
All sugestions are welcome...thanx!!!

I had a friend once tell me about her bf who beat her "except that he's an alcholic drug user (felon) who has anger problems, he's a really great guy... you just need to get to know him" idiot...

So which is it? He's a really great guy when he beats her?

-OR-

He's a felon, who's an alcoholic drug user, that's a great guy, but just need to know him first?

Quicher Bytchin I hear you and you are right it is not my place but she came to me for advice and I as a friend need to be there for her. She is a grown woman and it is her choice to keep seeing this guy and I have nothing to say about that, I just care about her and I want to see her happy!!!

The first thing I'd do is check the local laws, as there might be some criminal stuff here. Intentionally infecting people with various diseases has turned into a big deal in light of our current HIV/AIDS crisis, and that could translate to BIG trouble for him.

If the criminal thing doesn't work, you can always sue the bastard instead. The only way to make him pay is by... making him pay.

A person can still get herpes even when using a condom. The outbreak can occur in areas not covered by a condom.

This is true, and I'm not arguing this point at all. But the fact that they didn't use a condom at all wasn't wise. For either of them.

Are they ever honest? I begining to
think not. I think they will lie to
get whatever they want.

Careful with the generalizations. Not all women are dumb sluts, ya know. (=

Are you saying that a moral person can't get std's?