Topic: Internet Dating Lesson 1
Peccy's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:37 AM
Ok I feel that I'm somewhat of a pro on this simply because I was married to a girl I met on the net, and have procured hundreds of friendships all over the world and dates and relationships from almost every state in the US.

Ok, the first thing you need to look at is your picture. Look at it as if you are a prospective date. What would you think about you? Is it fuzzy, out of focus, hardly recognizable, far off, etc.
Regardless of what you think, you don't have to look like a model. So Glamor shots are not good. Sure it's you, but it's false advertising. You don't look like that everyday, so in essence, that's a lie.

Just a normal everyday shot of you will be fine. with your car, animal, don't use your kid, just sitting there, it doesn't matter just as long as you follow the 3 C's rule- clear, close and clean.

Yes clean. No on wants to see your privates before even saying one word to you. Have some manners! If you'd be embarrassed if your mother saw it, then it probably is too risque'.

That's it for the photos, next time we'll do manners, because no matter what you think about them, manners are appreciated and show something that the Internet is lacking in- class.

crystal14882's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:39 AM
You must be a busy man

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:42 AM
Edited by Peccy on Mon 03/03/08 11:45 AM

You must be a busy man
Yes a lot busier in the last two years, also I have a lot less money! Okay, I just counted 30 states so I'm 20 shot sue me...lol

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Mon 03/03/08 11:43 AM
I dunno peccy.......what do you think?? would you date me??:wink: laugh laugh laugh

crystal14882's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:44 AM
I can only imagine...that's a lot of airfare or gasoline!! Was it worth it?

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:45 AM
I agree with the three C rule....

flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:46 AM
Yes it was actually. Gained miraculous experiences!

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/03/08 11:53 AM
And I did not always travel either, like the nurse from Dillingham, Alaska, she flew here.

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Mon 03/03/08 12:03 PM
Ive had trips paid for by friends who wanted to meet me.......I loved my trip to Australia!!bigsmile drinker

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Mon 03/03/08 12:04 PM
and I did have a guy come see me from Colorado........Ive had trips to california.......damn it I love meeting people!!bigsmile drinker

They werent from dating sites though.....noway

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Mon 03/03/08 12:17 PM
I wanna meet this guy next!!!laugh

drinker laugh

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZA1NoOOoaNw

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Mon 03/03/08 12:20 PM

Ok I feel that I'm somewhat of a pro on this simply because I was married to a girl I met on the net, and have procured hundreds of friendships all over the world and dates and relationships from almost every state in the US.

Ok, the first thing you need to look at is your picture. Look at it as if you are a prospective date. What would you think about you? Is it fuzzy, out of focus, hardly recognizable, far off, etc.
Regardless of what you think, you don't have to look like a model. So Glamor shots are not good. Sure it's you, but it's false advertising. You don't look like that everyday, so in essence, that's a lie.

Just a normal everyday shot of you will be fine. with your car, animal, don't use your kid, just sitting there, it doesn't matter just as long as you follow the 3 C's rule- clear, close and clean.

Yes clean. No on wants to see your privates before even saying one word to you. Have some manners! If you'd be embarrassed if your mother saw it, then it probably is too risque'.

That's it for the photos, next time we'll do manners, because no matter what you think about them, manners are appreciated and show something that the Internet is lacking in- class.



Any tips for the guys?

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/03/08 01:27 PM


Ok I feel that I'm somewhat of a pro on this simply because I was married to a girl I met on the net, and have procured hundreds of friendships all over the world and dates and relationships from almost every state in the US.

Ok, the first thing you need to look at is your picture. Look at it as if you are a prospective date. What would you think about you? Is it fuzzy, out of focus, hardly recognizable, far off, etc.
Regardless of what you think, you don't have to look like a model. So Glamor shots are not good. Sure it's you, but it's false advertising. You don't look like that everyday, so in essence, that's a lie.

Just a normal everyday shot of you will be fine. with your car, animal, don't use your kid, just sitting there, it doesn't matter just as long as you follow the 3 C's rule- clear, close and clean.

Yes clean. No on wants to see your privates before even saying one word to you. Have some manners! If you'd be embarrassed if your mother saw it, then it probably is too risque'.

That's it for the photos, next time we'll do manners, because no matter what you think about them, manners are appreciated and show something that the Internet is lacking in- class.



Any tips for the guys?
Be yourself, don't try to be something you're not. Be cordial, be mannerly, etc. And don't lead every conversation towards sex.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 03/03/08 01:32 PM
noway laugh

Shaden's photo
Mon 03/03/08 02:31 PM
I think you should do one on manners. It's getting freaking ridiculous. grumble