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Topic: ahem, i need help
lulu24's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:33 AM

if you were worried about the "legal " part of it your report him, and just make a new addy like she said ... lol


you really want his contact??


no, i do NOT want his contact. as in ever.

but i need the email to BOUNCE, not just delete.

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:34 AM

And you may want to get ahold of a lawyer...notification by email does not constitute receiving legal papers...like you said..there is no proof you received it. It has to be served to you or sent certified mail. Contact a lawyer and stop stressing out


for certain court cases, the only notification you need is for them to post it in the local paper. they only have to show that they've made reasonable effort to notify you of the case.

feel free to email for questions...

crystal14882's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:34 AM
maybe going to a forum isn't the right answer...go to yahoo and search your question on how to bounce an email. If you completely delete the email it will be gone. When he sends an email...it will come back with a mailer-daemon. check it out.

crystal14882's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:36 AM
Edited by crystal14882 on Mon 03/03/08 09:38 AM


And you may want to get ahold of a lawyer...notification by email does not constitute receiving legal papers...like you said..there is no proof you received it. It has to be served to you or sent certified mail. Contact a lawyer and stop stressing out


for certain court cases, the only notification you need is for them to post it in the local paper. they only have to show that they've made reasonable effort to notify you of the case.

feel free to email for questions...

Yeah when it is considered abandonment and one is trying to gain full custody of their child or wants an uncontested divorce.
Crystal's legal aid at your service

crystal14882's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:37 AM
btw your girls are very cute

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/03/08 09:39 AM

maybe going to a forum isn't the right answer...go to yahoo and search your question on how to bounce an email. If you completely delete the email it will be gone. When he sends an email...it will come back with a mailer-daemon. check it out.


eh, it's not an option in yahoo mail...but i was HOPING that a techie person would know of a program or something that would bypass this.

there's almost always a way...i've just not found it yet.

btw your girls are very cute


thank you...i'm rather fond of them.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 03/03/08 12:08 PM


Why not try the direct approach ,, Please don't email me anymore .. I don't want to hear from you ..


can't.

we have a no contact order (which he's in violation of by emailing me). however, if he gets the order overturned, he MAY be able to use that address as a way to contact me for other legal actions...which i'm trying to avoid.

make a fake account along the lines of NOReply@yahoo.com and send him a email saying (your email) is non-existant every time he sends an email, that is about the only way your gonna pull or attempt to pull somthing like that off

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/03/08 04:37 PM

make a fake account along the lines of NOReply@yahoo.com and send him a email saying (your email) is non-existant every time he sends an email, that is about the only way your gonna pull or attempt to pull somthing like that off


you know what?

that just might work...

Shaden's photo
Mon 03/03/08 06:31 PM
I was going to say something similar. It sounds like it's worth the hassle.

Lordling's photo
Mon 03/03/08 07:12 PM


if you were worried about the "legal " part of it your report him, and just make a new addy like she said ... lol


you really want his contact??


no, i do NOT want his contact. as in ever.

but i need the email to BOUNCE, not just delete.


The only way to do that is on the mail-server itself or it's firewall, otherwise, the delivery information is going to be logged. You can send fake responses, etc., etc., but it won't change the logs. Even if you got Yahoo! to block his IP or email address, all he'd have to do is use another one. Echoing someone else's comment, I have yet to see email considered as legal notification of anything by any court. It is not considered reliable enough, nor even certifiable correspondence, due to it's potential anonymous nature.

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/03/08 08:29 PM

The only way to do that is on the mail-server itself or it's firewall, otherwise, the delivery information is going to be logged. You can send fake responses, etc., etc., but it won't change the logs. Even if you got Yahoo! to block his IP or email address, all he'd have to do is use another one. Echoing someone else's comment, I have yet to see email considered as legal notification of anything by any court. It is not considered reliable enough, nor even certifiable correspondence, due to it's potential anonymous nature.


he's not intelligent enough to use a different address. if it bounced back to him saying that the email addie didn't exist, he'd be completely convinced.

he can't even figure out how to use the address bar...he uses the search bar to navigate EVERYWHERE...

Jtevans's photo
Tue 03/04/08 12:36 AM


Why not try the direct approach ,, Please don't email me anymore .. I don't want to hear from you ..


can't.

we have a no contact order (which he's in violation of by emailing me). however, if he gets the order overturned, he MAY be able to use that address as a way to contact me for other legal actions...which i'm trying to avoid.



if you have a no contact order and he is violating it than tell the cops!

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