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Topic: Can you have someone, but you don't want them??
madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 03/02/08 07:43 PM
yep i do

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Sun 03/02/08 07:45 PM
Wouldn't that be a nice problem to have?

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 07:45 PM
I wouldn't say they're out of your league as I don't believe in leagues. I just think some girls are so superficial especially when they're younger (notice I said some before people attack me) and that they just care about looks or what you're driving. There are plenty of cute or attractive girls out there who date guys who aren't good looking, but who are nice. I know a couple of girls who are stunners who are dating good guys who don't look so good. If you keep at it instead of giving up I'm sure you can find a good looking girl who can look past your possible not amazing looks (I don't even know what you look like).

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 07:46 PM Edited by cookmclikapoundbacon on Sun 03/02/08 07:47 PM
Wouldn't that be a nice problem to have? Not necessarily. Especially if its someone who is vindictive and doesn't know how to take no for an answer. Some girl I met online said she loved me after a couple of weeks. We set up plans to meet she broke them, so I kicked her out of my life. She swore revenge and stuff obviously she never got it because we never met. Still that aspect is weird and kind of scary. By the way there were many other reasons I kicked her out of my life, but the throwing our plans away was the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sun 03/02/08 07:47 PM
I wouldn't say they're out of your league as I don't believe in leagues. I just think some girls are so superficial especially when they're younger (notice I said some before people attack me) and that they just care about looks or what you're driving. There are plenty of cute or attractive girls out there who date guys who aren't good looking, but who are nice. I know a couple of girls who are stunners who are dating good guys who don't look so good. If you keep at it instead of giving up I'm sure you can find a good looking girl who can look past your possible not amazing looks (I don't even know what you look like). Rofl. I don't try. I make it a point not to waste time.

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 07:48 PM
I wouldn't say they're out of your league as I don't believe in leagues. I just think some girls are so superficial especially when they're younger (notice I said some before people attack me) and that they just care about looks or what you're driving. There are plenty of cute or attractive girls out there who date guys who aren't good looking, but who are nice. I know a couple of girls who are stunners who are dating good guys who don't look so good. If you keep at it instead of giving up I'm sure you can find a good looking girl who can look past your possible not amazing looks (I don't even know what you look like). Rofl. I don't try. I make it a point not to waste time. Better to waste time trying then to waste time *****ing about how they're too good for you eh?

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sun 03/02/08 07:50 PM
Wouldn't that be a nice problem to have? Yeah really Twin..Thats one problem that I wouldn't mind having!

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 07:52 PM
Wouldn't that be a nice problem to have? Yeah really Twin..Thats one problem that I wouldn't mind having! It's more of an annoyance than a problem. If it was someone I wanted to be with then it would be a nice 'problem'.

hunter870 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 772	Sun 03/02/08 07:54 PM
I only wish I had that problem,but hay life douse go on.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sun 03/02/08 07:54 PM
Wouldn't that be a nice problem to have? Yeah really Twin..Thats one problem that I wouldn't mind having! It's more of an annoyance than a problem. If it was someone I wanted to be with then it would be a nice 'problem'. Well..how about WE trade lives..no one wants to be with me at all..would you be happier that way?..I'd gladly trade...I'm joking..sorry.

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 08:01 PM
Personally, I really don't care. I've hardly been with anyone ever and I really don't want to settle for someone I'm not attracted to. I'm certainly not shallow, but I must have some degree of attraction to the girl i'm seeing.

crystal14882 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 391	Sun 03/02/08 08:03 PM
yes...about a handful but there is one I want and I am slowly working on...but he isn't looking for a serious relationship right now and I don't want FWB

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sun 03/02/08 08:06 PM
You know..I'm probably the only person in the world that has ever said they are attracted more to a persons attitude and behavior rather than their looks and actually meant it..lol..which is probably one of the reasons I'm single..lol

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 03/02/08 08:08 PM
as a matter of fact i do!

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 08:09 PM
I prefer attitude to looks, but they need to have some sort of 'look' for me to date them.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sun 03/02/08 08:13 PM
I prefer attitude to looks, but they need to have some sort of 'look' for me to date them. would that be the"come hither"look?

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sun 03/02/08 08:17 PM
I wouldn't say they're out of your league as I don't believe in leagues. I just think some girls are so superficial especially when they're younger (notice I said some before people attack me) and that they just care about looks or what you're driving. There are plenty of cute or attractive girls out there who date guys who aren't good looking, but who are nice. I know a couple of girls who are stunners who are dating good guys who don't look so good. If you keep at it instead of giving up I'm sure you can find a good looking girl who can look past your possible not amazing looks (I don't even know what you look like). Rofl. I don't try. I make it a point not to waste time. Better to waste time trying then to waste time *****ing about how they're too good for you eh? No. I'm tired of being the one to do all the work, with no rewards. If I'm worth her time, she'll come after me. If not, I have no problem being alone. Atleast i can still talk to myself.

cookmclikapoundbacon Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 56	Sun 03/02/08 08:24 PM
I have no idea what come hither means. I don't think girls will come to me cuz i'm immensely shy.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Sun 03/02/08 08:42 PM
yeah..kinda...we both like eachother LOTS..but dont want to risk our friendship over what could be... and then theres my ex..who still wants to be with me but i dont want him back...its hard!

Foliel Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 1189	Sun 03/02/08 10:25 PM Edited by Foliel on Sun 03/02/08 10:26 PM
You know..I'm probably the only person in the world that has ever said they are attracted more to a persons attitude and behavior rather than their looks and actually meant it..lol..which is probably one of the reasons I'm single..lol you aren't the only one :) i'm still single for the same reason. and, well, i like being single lol I am also in the boat of loving someone I can't have.