I took my girls out shopping and to eat today and the subject about sex
(not specifically like that) came up. I was informed of the TOYS and
condoms my ex has in her bed room. And of course my TOYS have been found
too, except no condoms here as I have not had a need for them YET!!! LOL
I got the impression that my daughter thinks my ex is a ho?? so to
speak. Well, I did say that was not nice to say, but damit, it's true.
Should I confront her mom about these observations so MAYBE she will
correct them or should I leave it alone. My daughter will catch 9 kinds
of hell if I say anything to the ex about this?? But it pisses me off to
hear my daughter to talk about her mom like that, well not pissed at my
daughter, but ex for letting it be so known! 12-13 year old girls, I
guess they won't need to take sex education now!

Nerves-gone (Mike)

Nerves...
would you rather they found out about sex,
from parents who love them,,,
or some horny boy,
in the backseat of a car on saterday night???

as far as your ex being a "HO"???

bet you my ex has your beat by a country mile...lol...M.

Teen age girls, uh? They could be spying on their mom and snooping
through her things...The ex, may NOT be LETTING them see stuff...{ to
give your ex the benifit of the doubt.} I would talk to the kids about
respecting BOTH parents, if I were you. Raising teens, today, is no
picknic, at all. Believe, me, your girls, already, know a lot about sex,
and maybe too much, at this young age. The subject of respect is all you
need to talk to them about...not sex.

Not concerned about them finding out about sex from us, just to not
advertise it to them. I have preached to them that it is wrong to be
with another man if he is married which was my ex's situation when we
split. I told them I was not condemning their mom, but it was not right
to be with a married man.

The talking about sex, to teen girls, should be left up to the mom.

CAN I HAVE THE PHONE # OF YOUR EX ? IS SHE REALLY A HO ? GIVE US SOME
JUICY DETAILS PLEASE !!!

Dream, she (my daughter) admitted to snooping in her things as she did
mine also. She told me so. We are very close. But her statement about
New Years was "I bet she's gonna get laid". I mean damn............she's
talking about her mom. And makes no bones about all her "boyfriends"!
Damn, I am glad I am about 97% passed her (ex's) games.

what are they doing in their moms room that is her room and she
deserves the privacy

Hi SPAY
Her # is 1-800-EAT-ShIt
LMAO

Nerves..is it possible that your girls FOUND the toys? and maybe
they've just got the wrong impression after seeing them?

depending on the type of toys your X has...might be givin off the wrong
impression

maybe discuss this with your X...so that she knows they're aware of it
at least?

LG, we have had that discussion already. I told the EX if she had them
there, they have been found, and damn, 1 is a big son of a d...! LMAO I
am sure she knows they have been found. But what I can't get over was
the girls thinking about her having sex with different guys. That's just
not right, and iluv (wish my name was 84) LOL, if she would stay home
enough, she might get more privacy.

AS I stated, Nerves...it ALL boils down to respecting the parents...if
you do not insist that the girls respect their mom, they will not
respect you, either.

Nerves sounds exactly like some of the sh‡† I have dealt with. My kids
think my ex is a ho to and I just tell them that she's searching for
something the wrong way. I make sure they know that acting like their
mother is not an option. I strtess the fact of sexually transmitted
diseases and how I have been able to abstain from sex. All you can
really do is try to be a good role model for them. Try to keep good
communications between you and you kid/kids. Let them know they can talk
to you about anything without fear of recourse.

WHY DID SHE NEED TOYS ? NERVES THAT WAS YOUR JOB TO SATISFY HER THAT WAY
SHE WOULD'NT NEED TOYS OR TO CHEAT ON YOU. YOUR DUAGHTERS WILL BE FINE,
AS LONG AS YOU TALK TO THEM AND EXPLAIN THAT WOMEN WITH " CLASS " DONT
NEED TOYS. THEY NEED TO BE FOCUSED ON SCHOOL AND THEIR CARRERS NOT
FOCUSED ON SEX TOYS. MAYBE GET THEM INVOLVED WITH CHURCH ASWELL.

JUST SAY NO TO DILDOS.

LMAO! Leave it to Spay!

Dream, I always try to teach them respect especially to their mom. They
have wanted to come live with me for 2 years now. I think the think I am
the "better" deal as I was always the easy going dad. Never get excited
about an a going to a c, but expecting it to be an A+ the next time.
Just went unsaid. But I do think they have a good mom and yes I do still
love her and always will as she is the mom of my girls. But I can say I
am not IN love with her anymore. It would be hell to prove her an unfit
mom. I think mom disiplens them in a fair manner and always back it up
even if I don't think its fair.

LMFAO @ SPAY

If she had toys when I was with her, I never found them. Sex was one of
our better points I guess, at least she said there was never a problem
with that, although I do remember 1 time when...............never mind.
I ain't tellin!
LOL

now, SPAY....What's wrong with TOYS? Having toys is better than
''spreading the love'' around!!!! LMAOFOTF!

ROFLMAO!
Leave it up to Spay to be a sweet and sour pickle,
all rolled up in one ****head...lol...M.


ROFLMAO!!!