And I'd like to try and break it. See when I start having deep feelings for someone. I start getting scared about the feelings and start thinking how I don't want to end up hurt. So what do I do? I try and break things off with the person. This has been happening to me and I thought about this person all week and friday I sent him a message here telling him that I think we should not hang out anymore. He called me and told me to rethink things, cause he really liked me too. I just can't grasp this and I am terrified if I just let go and go with it, that I will wind up with a broken heart. What should I do?

let me get sum coffee an we can talk

i know what you mean hun, met this guy been dating for a bit, its going great and really like, but still scary...got to try to move past that feeling hun and enjoy...yeh might get hurt again...but then again mite not and look what you mite loose..be brave

Do what I'm doing.... hang on to your hat, be completely honest, like you have here, and go with it...

Worst than can happen?


A broken heart... but it isn't broken, just a little bent...

and they mend...

kitten i know something had to happen to couse this. I have been there. I don't know for sure how you can change. but maybe just take it slow. If you don't take a chance then you will never know. At the same time i do hear what you are saying about being broken hearted.

That's true, it's just hard for me to do. I'm going to try and trust in myself and him, although it's gonna be hard.

is the risk worth the reward? If you think he's worth it go for it. Happiness and love is what we all seek. You might get hurt but you will never know if you don't try.

no coffee yet kitten,,,,,,,,,but i see u gots lots of friends that saport ya,,,,,,,so if ya hart gets a little ent,thats just life hun,,,,,,go far it

if he shows you daily that he really cares, he is a considerate and dedicated fool for you, then just shake your head and go with it until he wins you over completely. then, it just does not matter any more. you both are done for!!



but what a way to go!!

it will be hard hun and if you need to chat anytime give me a call...but go for it

YEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


(that was for s1ow's post)

hows that saying go,,,better to have luv an lost not to have no luv at all,,,,,,something like that

Very true. It's so scary to me.

Yeah I have been burned a few times, so thats why I have stayed single for so long. Guess I will take my chances. TY.

I think he is amazing. Luckily he is out of town and not posting on the board so he wont see this. TY for the advice.

Thanks darlin. I think I will give it a try.

very true though.

Thanks Deb.

good luck got fingers and toes crossed lol

lol debi,,,sometimes u say things that make me wonder aboutyou