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you guys make it sound so easy. how do you stop caring? Nobody is telling you to stop caring... Just go out and be with good people.... Keep yourself occupied. After time, things will be better |
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funny...all he had to do was talk to me and i could either be there for him or leave. all he had to do was be open and honest open and honest?..honey we're talking about a guy here..how many of them are there like that around? 
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funny...all he had to do was talk to me and i could either be there for him or leave. all he had to do was be open and honest open and honest?..honey we're talking about a guy here..how many of them are there like that around? here |
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you guys make it sound so easy. how do you stop caring? You don't, you move on... |
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Hey Ladyofmagic,
A LOT more than you think. |
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Hey Ladyofmagic, A LOT more than you think. Ok..then I take that comment back..I should just say that I've never met a guy that was open and honest about anything. |
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Guess I'm not as strong as people seem to think I am
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Yes you are. You just don't know it.
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stay positive. Take it one day at a time. things will get better.
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Hey Ladyofmagic, A LOT more than you think. Ok..then I take that comment back..I should just say that I've never met a guy that was open and honest about anything. Ladyofmagic, You have been dating the wrong guys. |
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i just think it should be simple...just be honest and open..that way there is no confusion
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Guess I'm not as strong as people seem to think I am Rose..there will be someone out there who appreciates you for you..but you can't be tied up with this guy if you really wanna find that.. |
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i've been through much worse u'll get through it darling if we were closer we'd go out and meet plenty of people
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I can't help but see the good in everyone even if they don't act like it.
still naive that way |
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I can't help but see the good in everyone even if they don't act like it. still naive that way I don't think it's being naive..I think at some point in our lives we all wanna believe that the world is full of wonderful kind people that wont hurt us..I learned at a VERY early age that people can and will hurt you if you let them. |
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It's a process.
Take down and put away pictures of him and the two of you together. Turn the radio station when "your song" comes on. Don't eat at the little rib joint you and he always went to. Take a different path to work... or on the way home. Buy a new dress. Watch a different movie. Cut your hair. Buy a new end table. Switch to a different brand of beer. Break the familiarities, and the rest will follow. I wish you nothing but the best. (=  
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I can't help but see the good in everyone even if they don't act like it. still naive that way I don't think it's being naive..I think at some point in our lives we all wanna believe that the world is full of wonderful kind people that wont hurt us..I learned at a VERY early age that people can and will hurt you if you let them. This is true. However, you can't have a closed heart and expect to be happy. Yellowrose, Hang in there. You have a good heart and it shows. One of these days if you are patient the right guy will see that and snag you for his own. |
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You don't stop caring. You just find something else to do to take up your time. Yup..listen to him..hes right |
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OK...I keep letting the ex fiance get to me. My only crime to him was to try to get him to talk to me about the problems he was having...and there was alot of stress. He was a very good friend for a year before we dated and now he has been cold and hateful to me for caring. Now he won't talk to me. Sad thing is - he got me on here when we were friends and he's back on here too. He isn't used to people caring about him, so I guess I scared him. I kow I should say F him but I can't when I've always cared about him even as a friend  Boy I don't know about the other guys but I would just about give anything to have been in his shoes |
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Without communication there can be no openness or honesty....its a prerequisite for most everyone...at least in concept...but i've found when it actually plays out both sexes including myself have been guilty of lack of communication....
sometimes that comes from not wanting to hurt the other person & sometimes it comes from not being in touch with our own thoughts & feelings.... the solution is to try to get the other to communicate by letting the other person know you care and sharing your own thoughts...if he doesn't respond to that then i think you would be happier looking elsewhere.... Keep on Caring because that is who you are.... 
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