lol wasnt sure if to put this here or under sex and dating lol...

What do you folks think? Should men and women go out before getting married, and have one last party, where there are naked members of the opposite sex around, and the "soon to be deceased" is expected to have mad sex with them?

I personally don't see anything wrong with having a party, however I do not agree with the idea of strippers or sex etc. I also don't agree with getting falling down stupid drunk, either, as personally that detracts from the fun.

as far as I am concerned the sex issue would be the same thing as cheating, especially since nowadays a lot of people are sleeping together before marriage anyway.

I see no sense in that whole "last night of freedom" thing. If you are with someone it's still cheating married or not. Guys or girls are allowed to have fun nothing wrong with that, but you have to know when to drawn the line. And "I was drunk" is not an excuse.

Nothing wrong with a bachelorette party there is a saying
LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH.
If you out to have sex one last time i think its wrong.

Just because there are strippers, doesn't mean the "intended" is supposed to have sex. It's more a "see what you COULD have if you were single".

Sex with someone other than your partner is cheating...no matter when it happens.


As for getting drunk....sheeesh..let people have fun.

I haven't even thought that far down the road yet! But, I know for sure I wouldn't want any strippers or do anything to cheat on my man as a way to say "my last day of freedom". I still want to party.

Boobies are fun

I have no qualms with getting drunk, I have issues however with getting so drunk that you piss yourself, and cause fights or get stupid, etc...

Funny...When I think of going out and getting drunk, your particular scenarios never cross my mind. I wonder what kind of people you party with. LOL Sounds like an interesting bunch.