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Topic: I really love it when
blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Thu 02/28/08 07:47 PM
My ex kept me secluded as well. Now that we are not together i have alot more friends. And the sad thing is that most of them are guy's and it ticks the ex off so bad!!!! Why would you let you ex seclude you? I never got that about girls.. Because we do what they should also be helping us females do and that's takeing care of the kids while they are out parting with their friends!

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Thu 02/28/08 07:47 PM
Too sad...I hope you can connect with your friend to maintain your relationship...and let her realize that your frienship has much more validity than the bf/gf stage.

LandRover28 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 417	Thu 02/28/08 07:48 PM
Why are you so interested in him?

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Thu 02/28/08 07:49 PM
my bestfriends' boyfriend doesn't let her hangout with me.. and we become so distant, it's like we don't even know each other anymore. i had that happen one time i was liveing with her for 2 years and she told me to pick her or my friend i told her to go and had to have the police take her out.i told here my friend will always be my friend .and i can find a new girl friend,my friend died 12 years ago but he was my friend to the end

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Thu 02/28/08 07:53 PM
My ex kept me secluded as well. Now that we are not together i have alot more friends. And the sad thing is that most of them are guy's and it ticks the ex off so bad!!!! Why would you let you ex seclude you? I never got that about girls.. Because we do what they should also be helping us females do and that's takeing care of the kids while they are out parting with their friends! I've had a chick who was possive... I told her too kick rocks, why can't girls do the same before the issue becomes worst?

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Thu 02/28/08 07:53 PM
My ex kept me secluded as well. Now that we are not together i have alot more friends. And the sad thing is that most of them are guy's and it ticks the ex off so bad!!!! Why would you let you ex seclude you? I never got that about girls.. Because we do what they should also be helping us females do and that's takeing care of the kids while they are out parting with their friends! i have takeing care of my daughter for 6 years now.and i am a full time dad/we can do it sometimes better then girls

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Thu 02/28/08 07:54 PM
My ex kept me secluded as well. Now that we are not together i have alot more friends. And the sad thing is that most of them are guy's and it ticks the ex off so bad!!!! Why would you let you ex seclude you? I never got that about girls.. Because we do what they should also be helping us females do and that's takeing care of the kids while they are out parting with their friends! i have takeing care of my daughter for 6 years now.and i am a full time dad/we can do it sometimes better then girls Key word "Sometimes"

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Thu 02/28/08 07:58 PM
I don't think I would let myself get into a relationship where it does come down to picking either friend or significant other. I don't personally think I would let it go that far.. But I will never know until I'm in that situation.. I just know what it does to the friend, because I have been, and am in that situation, and it hurts.. Nothing seems to get through her head.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Thu 02/28/08 07:59 PM
I think these control issues are alot more common then many of us would like 2 admit.The longer I'm separated & time passes by,I've come 2 the sad realization that I had stayed married for so many yrs.faithfully 2 a complete narcissistic control freak.She systematically removed every friend,co-worker etc.from my life.This line needs 2 be drawn by him or her & maintained period.No exceptions.If not;break apart.A very sad & painful lesson in life was learned of course.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Thu 02/28/08 08:00 PM
i was like that once...its just gonna hit her one day..when she wants to do something with out him and relize that she's got no one to call to hang out with

StuffedAnimalOrgy Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 1035	Thu 02/28/08 08:01 PM
Friends will always be there. Significant others.... well that's another story. Unless it's "the one" in which case that person shouldn't mind you hanging out with your friends. I've never understood why people stay with controlling types.