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sendingyoukisses's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:55 PM
why do you men say u want to be with someone when you really don't i have given up on finding the one for me. it seems all the ones i am interested in turn out to be player. just be honest about what your looking if its just a friend say that if your looking for more thats fine to but just be honest cause that will get you farther than you know. good luck to all of you on your search for the one

erowid1's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:55 PM
what do you mean by "you men"?

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:56 PM
THANK YOU!!!!!drinker

RockBooker's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:56 PM

why do you men say u want to be with someone when you really don't i have given up on finding the one for me. it seems all the ones i am interested in turn out to be player. just be honest about what your looking if its just a friend say that if your looking for more thats fine to but just be honest cause that will get you farther than you know. good luck to all of you on your search for the one

You DO understand that some guys only say that, because they really arent into you. Sad, but true.

hellkitten54's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:56 PM
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Makes things a lot easier, it's what I do.flowerforyou

mry's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:56 PM
Awee girl, one day you will run smack dab right into him...and he will be the right one!

no photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:57 PM
flowerforyou Sorry you are bummed out, at least that is what it sounds like .... but I am pretty sure mine is obvious as well .. good luck anyway drinker flowerforyou :wink:

sexxyandsingle's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:57 PM
always men are players pimps etc" don't forget ladies are pimps to :smile: :smile: :smile:

winnie410's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:58 PM

what do you mean by "you men"?


she was talking specifically to you. laugh laugh j/k

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:58 PM
not all men are the same....just like not all women are the same. You can't just lump people into catagories. everyone has things that motivate us

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:59 PM
it happens hun dont dwell move on

erowid1's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:59 PM

not all men are the same....just like not all women are the same. You can't just lump people into catagories. everyone has things that motivate us
thank you!!smokin

briancarr's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:59 PM

why do you men say u want to be with someone when you really don't i have given up on finding the one for me. it seems all the ones i am interested in turn out to be player. just be honest about what your looking if its just a friend say that if your looking for more thats fine to but just be honest cause that will get you farther than you know. good luck to all of you on your search for the one
Maybe your an easy mark. Change up your game a little. If a guy can game you without much effort hes going to.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:00 PM


not all men are the same....just like not all women are the same. You can't just lump people into catagories. everyone has things that motivate us
thank you!!smokin


anytime. I hate it when YOU MEN laugh say I'm just like all girls.


thumbelinakat's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:00 PM


not all men are the same....just like not all women are the same. You can't just lump people into catagories. everyone has things that motivate us
thank you!!smokin

right on! drinker

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:01 PM


why do you men say u want to be with someone when you really don't i have given up on finding the one for me. it seems all the ones i am interested in turn out to be player. just be honest about what your looking if its just a friend say that if your looking for more thats fine to but just be honest cause that will get you farther than you know. good luck to all of you on your search for the one

You DO understand that some guys only say that, because they really arent into you. Sad, but true.



ah! So you read that book to "Hes just not that into you"smokin

Enya's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:03 PM
Some men here want ladies.
But;not saying names,when females invite them to a 'HOT TUB'
and talk dirty.........they give up too!

Just start out as friends so they can know the real you............

men really are'nt ALL jerk's!

no photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:04 PM

Some men here want ladies.
But;not saying names,when females invite them to a 'HOT TUB'
and talk dirty.........they give up too!

Just start out as friends so they can know the real you............

men really are'nt ALL jerk's!


Just sometimes we are ... right guys ?? laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:05 PM
Ok can we leave the men alone today. I aint tryin to be rude or anything.
But I have been seeing alot of men bashing threads. Although I understand YOU are not bashing them . I just feel like
ok, well ... The right one will come along One day.flowerforyou

Please No dis respect intended.drinker smokin flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/28/08 02:09 PM
Here is a rough summary for everyone, complied from the past two days:

1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship.

2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice.

3. Nice doesn't really mean nice.

4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together.

5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU. flowerforyou

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