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Topic: talk about bad luck
countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Thu 02/28/08 07:07 AM
Debbie, I know this may not help, but its no ones fault he did this. He , in his own mind thought there was nothin for him here. And he was tired of the Demons of Mental Illness he faced every day. I feel for you and your family.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:10 AM
OMG!!! How sad is that. I would be liein' if I said I never thought about kiilin' myself YEARS ago , but thats like one of the ultiment sins. I hope God had mercy for him. As for the Lady, Awww. breaks my heart to think she may have wanted it to happen , and as for the man who ran her over, I'll pray for him. AND YOU DEB!! this is close to my heart, because myself i have attempted suicide and died, but they bought me back. mental illnesses are worse than the physical very painful medical conditions i have. to you sweetie.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:12 AM
Debbie, I know this may not help, but its no ones fault he did this. He , in his own mind thought there was nothin for him here. And he was tired of the Demons of Mental Illness he faced every day. I feel for you and your family. i know, but a part of me thinks, with the correct medication. IF they had diagnosed him properly he still could be here. he split up with his girlfriend first, that afternoon he played football and was totally fine, later he hung himself.

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Thu 02/28/08 07:17 AM
I know what your sayin'. I had and still have demons around me all the time from the abuse as a child and teen. I know my sister was really depressed before cancer took her life. to you Debbie! KISS! MUAH!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:18 AM
I know what your sayin'. I had and still have demons around me all the time from the abuse as a child and teen. I know my sister was really depressed before cancer took her life. to you Debbie! KISS! MUAH! awwwwwwwwww, so sad.

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Thu 02/28/08 07:19 AM
Debbie, I know this may not help, but its no ones fault he did this. He , in his own mind thought there was nothin for him here. And he was tired of the Demons of Mental Illness he faced every day. I feel for you and your family. i know, but a part of me thinks, with the correct medication. IF they had diagnosed him properly he still could be here. he split up with his girlfriend first, that afternoon he played football and was totally fine, later he hung himself. I really think Doctors have no idea how to treat mental illnesses. They should allow mental ilness patients become doctors. The thing with depression is , you never know when or how it will affect you

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:21 AM
Debbie, I know this may not help, but its no ones fault he did this. He , in his own mind thought there was nothin for him here. And he was tired of the Demons of Mental Illness he faced every day. I feel for you and your family. i know, but a part of me thinks, with the correct medication. IF they had diagnosed him properly he still could be here. he split up with his girlfriend first, that afternoon he played football and was totally fine, later he hung himself. I really think Doctors have no idea how to treat mental illnesses. They should allow mental ilness patients become doctors. The thing with depression is , you never know when or how it will affect you i agree with you there. I as a patient, tell my pysciatrist what to do, he is pretty much hopless.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:22 AM
and because ive worked in the medical profession, i have had doctors ask ME what to do, and whats wrong with me.

countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Thu 02/28/08 07:25 AM
HI deb how ya doing hun..?well about a year or so ago a friend of my x's shoot himself in the head as his wife & childern where leaving(WALKIK OUT THE DOOR),they wernt geting along & had had a fight ,so He with no warning he just up & shoot him self..so sad.. its so sad to here when someone take there one live,that they think its so bad,that they cant even see better days or a better way ahead...

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:27 AM
HI deb how ya doing hun..?well about a year or so ago a friend of my x's shoot himself in the head as his wife & childern where leaving(WALKIK OUT THE DOOR),they wernt geting along & had had a fight ,so He with no warning he just up & shoot him self..so sad.. its so sad to here when someone take there one live,that they think its so bad,that they cant even see better days or a better way ahead... hi sweetie, im ok. that is so sad to hear, im so sorry. its like he did it at the spur of the moment and didnt even think, how sad.

countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Thu 02/28/08 07:32 AM
yes exactly..had a few of his frieds to do the same thing of the last several years. also

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 07:36 AM
yes exactly..had a few of his frieds to do the same thing of the last several years. also thats so sad, im sorry. its being impulsive, if they actually thought about it, they might not do it, they just dont think.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 02:09 PM
ive found out the lady who got run over, was adopted, and she had recently got in touch with her real family and they were meeting up. so it doesnt look like it was a suicide. it just gets sader

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Thu 02/28/08 02:14 PM
They say bad things happen in threes... I'd look over your shoulder if I were you.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/28/08 02:31 PM
They say bad things happen in threes... I'd look over your shoulder if I were you. this didnt involve me, it was my sisters friends, and her ex boyfriends family.