Let me get this straight. A woman who is completly self sufficient, Has
a mind of her own? A woman who wouldn't want to move in so you can foot
the bill?

Who would want that?

I don't worry and cross bridges i probably won't have to cross,

Barbie. U might not be like this but some women, when they WANT an
EXCUSE for turmoil in the relationship, which THEY CAUSED, they pull one
out from a hat: "The man ANGRY because she is working for twice time
his salary. They're not saying that they will ask EVERYONE else,
including the NEXT man, advice on spending, except their husband.
They're not saying that shout insults and walk-off on him in public. A
mate who was more certified educationally than I was, once told me: "It
is I who have the education!" Well boy, she couldn't WIN a game of
anything we were playing AFTER THAT! And everytime I win I will say: "It
is you who have the education. "She was the President of an Organization
and later, it was I who used to DRAFT and TYPE the letters, because of
my descriptive and attractive style. Yet she used to edit it for
spelling and better grammer. Her writings and mine generally. She had
SWALLOWED a dictionary, I'm SURE, WITHOUT WATER AND SALT.

What is education anyway? Education is what you know to help you to find
food to eat, including if you are a survivor in the jungle from a plane
crash. At one time when i was a Sales Rep for a large Company, the
person who used to make the MOST sales, was very illiterate.

I find that some men are not comfortable by a powerful woman in their
bedroom. Especially when you tell him it is time to "assume the
position"........

I personally like intelligent, powerful types, as long as they don't
disagree with me. HAHA

An articulate, assertive, collected woman is all kinds of a turn-on for
me. Engaging conversation combined with a self-assured presence is
intoxicating.

awwwwwwww sushi... guess that's why we get along soo well eh??


HEY I don't THINK so... all men I've met so far can't
HANDLE a Strong, opinionated woman.. that MUST be IT!! cuz I'm still
single



I'm not being egotistical here but most men I know do not have the level
of intelligence and wit to keep up with me.. and feel that most men are
turned OFF by that AND my independance..

guess I'm just hangin with the WRONG crowds eh??

to much of a power struggle....word around the office

Geez, I just thought they didn't like me!

Zero, you're right on target. The biggest turn-off for me is a
controller, especially when they try to be sneaky about it.

WOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOO got THAT rite.. I'm not about CONTROL over OTHERS..
only what I have control on.. nothing more.. I don't CONTROL people.. I
MANAGE them

I'm a motivator and an encourager.. I ASK.. I don't tell.. unless its my
kids and then well.. GOTTA tell em eh?? but I prefer to work
WITH people through ANY situation.. no use getting all upset or harping
on something they CAN'T change.. instead I try to find things that we
CAN change to imPROVE the situation.. what can I say..

we're RARE pearls eh sushi??

Scene, Him: "What would you like to do today." Her: Let's go to the
park and just laze around." Him: "OK" Within 30 minutes you find
yourself at a smokey Sports bar watching the Texans lose again. You get
testy. Him: "Well why didn't you say what you wanted to do?" Sound
familiar?

actually.. not really.. I'm a really easy going person.. and well...
although I don't mind the occasional sports game.. I'm not into smoky
bars.. he wants to hang with friends once in awhile?? sure.. go for
it... I'll find SOMEthing to amuse me but I try to communicate
CLEARLY with my partner.. WHEN I have one OMG.. it's been
awhile.. is it really like riding a bike sushi??

if by powerful, you mean she can bench press more than me, then yes.
afraid as hell. if however you mean smart, successful, assertive, strong
willed, ect, that is a big turn on to me.