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Topic: Flat Line
yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:36 PM
but all these tv and movies that are sex~centered put that idea into teens heads that it's important to have sex very true. it's not all about sex...there has to be a friendship as well. all we can do as parents is try to teach our kids that it's not the only thing in the world

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 12:36 PM
Been there done that .. the worst part is I started blaming myself , like I was not hot enough , and he was more than willing to let me take that blame .. I hated when i had to surpress my intimate feelings. It was the worst two years. Better off being alone And I would like to add there were other problems and that just compounded them ..

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:37 PM
I'd continue the relationship. But, if you went outside the relationship for contact, would you consider that cheating

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:37 PM
Could you continue a relationship with someone that wasnt really into the sex, but everything else was great? It depends on how into sex you are. If it is important to you it will never work. If you are ok masturbating in bed while your wife lays next to you , go for it BOB only does the trick for so long

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 02/27/08 12:37 PM
but all these tv and movies that are sex~centered put that idea into teens heads that it's important to have sex lol, tv, and movies? it is a natural human instinct. You aren't "taught" to have a strong sex drive, you either have it or you don't. Do not atempt to make people with strong sex drives sound abnormal because yours is not

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Wed 02/27/08 12:37 PM
I'm dating a man right now, he has MD.. and is in a wheelchair. He is a wonderful man.. I am hoping that we become more..

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Wed 02/27/08 12:38 PM
sure, they are friends or roomates. if it's solely what you are getting for a main romance, that will frustrate you man. pure and simple, you'll have to discuss this, if it's only you and her, then decide

kerouacfan Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 513	Wed 02/27/08 12:38 PM
but all these tv and movies that are sex~centered put that idea into teens heads that it's important to have sex I disagree.... it's hormones . I was raring to go by 6th grade

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 02/27/08 12:38 PM
I'd continue the relationship. But, if you went outside the relationship for contact, would you consider that cheating lol, what do you think lol

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:38 PM
I'd continue the relationship. But, if you went outside the relationship for contact, would you consider that cheating Yes...if there is a commitment to someone and the other goes outside. have you talked to her about this??? there might be a reason for her not wanting it and she may not know how you feel. you have to communicate

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:40 PM
I'd continue the relationship. But, if you went outside the relationship for contact, would you consider that cheating Yes...if there is a commitment to someone and the other goes outside. have you talked to her about this??? there might be a reason for her not wanting it and she may not know how you feel. you have to communicate This is just a general question, not personal

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Wed 02/27/08 12:41 PM
yup! it's not really about sex agree.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:41 PM
there is NOTHING wrong with liking sex....just helps to have someone mutually into it as you

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Wed 02/27/08 12:41 PM
but all these tv and movies that are sex~centered put that idea into teens heads that it's important to have sex I disagree.... it's hormones . I was raring to go by 6th grade OH JEEZ pinches bridge of nose

tanyaztoy Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 181	Wed 02/27/08 12:41 PM
Been there done that .. the worst part is I started blaming myself , like I was not hot enough , and he was more than willing to let me take that blame .. I hated when i had to surpress my intimate feelings. It was the worst two years. Better off being alone And I would like to add there were other problems and that just compounded them .. Me too. I it was me. Maybe he wasn't attracted to me anymore. But it him.

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Wed 02/27/08 12:43 PM
I agree that sex isn't everything, but I think that there has to be a level of intimacy in the relationship. To many, the sense of touch is very important in feeling connected to another person. That can be holding hands, snuggling, gentle caresses that don't necessarily lead to sex.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:44 PM
I agree that sex isn't everything, but I think that there has to be a level of intimacy in the relationship. To many, the sense of touch is very important in feeling connected to another person. That can be holding hands, snuggling, gentle caresses that don't necessarily lead to sex.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Wed 02/27/08 12:46 PM
if there's a commitment and you go outside, yes it's cheating, so discuss it.

Myisland50 Joined Thu 07/19/07 Posts: 6517	Wed 02/27/08 12:47 PM
intimacy is a melding of the heart, soul, core. It manifests itself in the emotional AND physical. If all is not present, it is not a intimate relationship Nuff said

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Wed 02/27/08 12:47 PM
YES!!! IF he had no weiner that would be fine with me ! I just want his heart.