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Topic: Just making sure
jhitchco's photo
Wed 02/27/08 09:55 AM
So if you ask a girl out. But she totally ignores that you said it and pretends that it didnt happen it would be safe to say she's not intrested. Correct? Then on a second note, why would same girl continue to talk to you even though she knows your intentions. Any Ideas?

txmomof2's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:00 AM
i would say she wasn't interested
but i have no idea why she still talks to you

mac26's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:00 AM
because maybe she just wants to be friends:wink:

astrosfan's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:01 AM
she like u as a person , great friend ..

but maybe not as far as a relationship!!!..

tanyaztoy's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:02 AM
Yes I think that is safe to assume. However, it sounds like she still wants to be friends.

no photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:04 AM
friends.......ditto.....ohwell

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:05 AM
Is it possible she thought you were joking? I'd ask again, to be sure. If you were friends, then you should be able to talk about it. flowerforyou

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Wed 02/27/08 10:05 AM
or she has a hearing problem???huh

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:06 AM

So if you ask a girl out. But she totally ignores that you said it and pretends that it didnt happen it would be safe to say she's not intrested. Correct? Then on a second note, why would same girl continue to talk to you even though she knows your intentions. Any Ideas?
smokin If a girl disrespects me like that I say NEXT. smokin So should you.smokin Forget this pigeon bro.smokin

briancarr's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:07 AM
She doesnt want to seem to easy. Maybe she see;s you as a guy she would like to get to know in a serious relationship. If you continue to persue her in a respectful manner she will open up more, and more. She wants you to woo her. If she still kicks it with you your in, you just have to lay back, be on your best behavior, and let it happen.

jhitchco's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:08 AM

or she has a hearing problem???huh
laugh laugh

blueeyedbarbie's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:10 AM

Is it possible she thought you were joking? I'd ask again, to be sure. If you were friends, then you should be able to talk about it. flowerforyou


I WOULD HAVE TO AGREE WITH THIS ONE!

Shaden's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:12 AM
Seems to me she wants to be friends.

jhitchco's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:13 AM
I will have to agree on the friends part. I just seems like it would be hard, knowing that you want more and she wants less

Shaden's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:23 AM
A good friendship is hard to find. flowerforyou I was really hurt in my early 20s when a really good friend, whom I felt was one of my best friends gave me an ultimatum...all or nothing. I thought he was just joking, but he broke off the friendship. You have to do what is best for you, but I'd keep the friendship and there is always a chance her feelings for you may grow.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:34 AM
She's a psycho. Move on. Do you really want a nutjob with a "selective hearing" psychosis in your life? Example; "Honey, where did these charges come from on the credit card?" "why I'm cooking chicken for dinner tonite sweetheart!" ok? Nuff said.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:38 AM
Thank you thank you I'll be here all week.

no photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:44 AM
I'll go one better, went out to lunch with a gal I know from work, different depts, work different nights, we have chatted before, joined me and some other friends out for breakfast, etc. Anyway when we say goodbye at her car she gives me a quick kiss and hug. I call the next day, I had a nice time, I would like to go out again, blah blah blah, she says the same. I call again 4 days later to set up next date, leave a message, 2 days later I call again, leave a message, haven't heard a word from her. NEXT

no photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:48 AM

So if you ask a girl out. But she totally ignores that you said it and pretends that it didnt happen it would be safe to say she's not intrested. Correct? Then on a second note, why would same girl continue to talk to you even though she knows your intentions. Any Ideas?
Prob cause shes a tease!!1laugh laugh kidding...dunno...

CrazyPalindrome's photo
Wed 02/27/08 11:31 AM
Maybe she's nervous about dating. I know I am... I'm terrified of one on one meetings. Afraid of running out of things to say or making a terrible faux pas. I'd say, if she's still talking to you, she's probably still at least a little interested. Maybe she's interested in being friends, or maybe she's still testing the waters so to speak. Try suggesting an outing with a larger group of friends, out to dinner, or maybe to a club. That way, the pressure's not all on you two, and it's partially disguised as a "friend" thing. That way you can still get together and talk, maybe pull her to the side a bit, or do some dancing together, and figure things out a bit, but it's not as... nerve racking.

Just a suggestion. ^__^

Good luck! :wink:

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